Ok well i want my tongue peirced but my dad says its for sexual reasons. Is that the only reason?

Question

Ik that can be one reason to get it but i want it cause i like it not for sexual reasons. I just feel that its my tongue not his.

Answer 1

I'll tell you the truth.  guys who see girls with tongue piercing think they are s***s.  You might as well carry a sign that says "I'm easy"

Your Dad knows what guys think.

If you want to be branded that way, that's your choice.  

If you were my sister, I'd beat the c**p out of you, 'cuz I love my sister and I don't want guys telling each other that she's a s**t.

Don't do it.

Answer 2

no its not really sexual  

i personally dont like tongue rings but do what you want you will prbably love it :)

Answer 3

I always wonder if you lose taste buds in the process.

Answer 4

I want a tongue ring, but not for any sexual purposes at all, I just want it because I love the way tongue rings look. I'm 18 right now and I've never given someone oral s*x and I know me getting a tongue ring isn't going to make me want to go out and do that.

But dad's can be really overprotective sometimes.

Answer 5

Girls and Guys will probably give you different answers.

Girls like to think that they are cool by having a pierced tongue. They don't have only the one thing on the brain...

Guys on the other hand just imagine what it will feel like on their d**k. I agree, guys will look at you with renewed interest as a plaything.

Answer 6

Most people get it because they like the way it looks. As for the sexual reasons, I've found (both as a person with a (retired) tongue piercing and having had partners with them) that it doesn't make much difference, so it's really just a rumor. (you can get little attachments that do make a difference, but your Dad doesn't need to know that part :)

My father thought the same thing when he saw mine. I think it's just the assumption people make. It wasn't my motivation for getting one, I just liked the look.

Answer 7

A lot of people will think that you love to give oral s*x and/or are great at it. There are many other reasons though. I really like the way it looks and it's easy to hide. People don't usually know unless i show them or tell them and then they're surprised. If you're under 18, I think you should obey your dad. Once you hit 18 though, go get it if you still want it. You may have changed your mind by then.

Answer 8

No that is not the only reason that u can want one. a tongue ring isn't really a sexual thing.

You already answered your own question: you want it because you like it and it's your tongue not his.

Answer 9

Well... he might be embarrassed. Or maybe he's afraid of you turning into something your not. Dad's (parents) get a little strict when it comes to tatoos and piercings in other than the ear.