Ok what am i to do when my 10 mon old son is adopted off an i was not informed

Question

He is a black male very yellow complected 10 mons old an i want him back because i didnt get any say so

Answer 1

They wouldn't have been able to adopt him out without terminating your rights. Without knowing the full story there's no way we can give you any real answers.

For example, how did you not know about this?

was he not in your custody for whatever reason? if so, what WAS the reason the child wasn't in your care?

Answer 2

Call the police or notify the authorities, 911 will figure something out

Answer 3

Did you have legal custody of your child?  If not contact a lawyer and try to regain your rights. If you did, contact a law enforcement agency and tell them what's going on.

@olivia_j: After a certain amount of time in many states if a parent does not do the steps provided to regain custody of a child taken by children's services, the parents rights can be terminated and the child can be placed up for adoption. So there are exceptions under different circumstances.

Answer 4

991!  holy **** thats bad! omg! how did that happen??!! get social services, do you know the people he was adopted to:? :(

Answer 5

well how was he out of your sight to begin with?  Social services doesn't just adopt children out without legal heartbreaking ground.  If my baby was 10 months he would be hanging out with mom everyday and wouldn't need to go into care.  Children go into care when their lives are dysfunctional and unfit. When their basic and psychological needs are not met.  The rule of thumb is to decide in the "Best Interest of the Child"  So think about the best interest before how you feel cheated and ask yourself;  about warmth, stability, comfort, opportunity, positive environments, and if he will be better off in a stabilized family.

Answer 6

I recommend that you leave the child in the custody of whoever adopted him. You are obviously unfit as a parent.  How anybody could have access to your child for a long enough period of time to have it adopted without you knowing is beyond me.  It takes several months to complete an adoption.  The child has only been alive for 10 months.  How much a part of his life could you have been?  Anyway a child is a human being and not a possession. So wanting him back because you didn't have any say so is a terrible reason to want him back.  How about you want him back because he is your world and you love him more than life itself.  I think we both know that this isn't true, otherwise you wouldn't be in the position that you are in now.  Please refrain from  reproduction from here on out.  We don't need more human waste on the street like you.  We have more than we can handle as it is.  Now, I doubt you are very literate so reading all of this might come as a challenge to you, but I hope you find someone to read it to you and take it to heart.

Answer 7

Your child can't be adopted without you giving consent or if you are underage & your parents gave their consent.  If it is the latter, you probably can't take care of or support said child so it probably is in the best interest of the child to be adopted.

p.s. what does his coloring have anything to do with anything anyway?

Answer 8

Some one has broken the law, so you'll need to take steps in reporting this. have you any idea  where the mother is of this child ? tell the police what you know and any information as to who and where the child might be, Knowing where she is or if she could be with relatives could be of a great help if you know this information.. Even knowing her drivers license number  is great,, they can track her this way. Or a forwarding address from a post office.Try doing a search by name and city at>http://msn.whitepages.com/. You could also call Social Services and give them your story and see what they tell you is the best way to approach this situation.

Answer 9

Get legal help! Police, a lawyer, whatever you must do! This would be considered an emergency.

Answer 10

okay wait...so your "question" is how do you go about getting him back?  

You will need to contact the child and family social services of your city and start the process of getting him back.  I was under the assumption that a child can only live with foster families and stay in the foster care system, not actually adopted by another family without the birth mother's approval.