Okay, I haven't been getting very many responses, so I'll ask again..?

Question

Okay, so, to get all of this, you have to read my first 2 questions:

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So, I finally told him that I like him (I know this is sorta shallow, but this is all thru text), and he's like, "Really? That's cool. How long?" So I told him, and I then I said, "Look, I really don't want things to be awkward between us now, can we just forget what I said?" And he said, "Ya, sure it's fine. I didn't want to make things awkward. Sorry." So, first, what does that mean? Okay, so then (later) he said, "It was hot seeing you today at the soccer game." And so I said, "Right back atcha. ;)" Then, he said, "Yeah, I didn't see you at the first game, so I had nothing to play for." Now what I want to know is, now this may sound stupid, but do you think he likes me back? Let me finish..

Answer 1

I think he likes you. I did the same thing (except with a guy friend) and he was like the same way. His response "Ya, sure it's fine. I didn't want to make things awkward. Sorry" is basically like he's happy he knows you like him and he respects your decision to be cool with it. It sounds like you're not entirely sure you know all the details about his personality and you don't feel like you can trust him. I would talk to your older brother and see if he knows this guy better than you do. Ask him about his personality and ask him about that stuff. Make sure you tell your older brother not to tell this guy anything, or else he might be like "my sister asked me about you." That would be embarrassing. So, now that he knows you should kind of go "secret agent" in finding more about this guy but making sure he doesn't know. I mean don't find out about his dirty little secrets, just find out what kind of guy he is.

Then, your next step would be to be more social with him. When you're at a game and you "lock eyes" by mistake just wave or do something friendly. Stay friendly for a little while ands just be friends. Then, after a while start to talk to him, like have conversations, and find out more about him. I understand that you just want to be with him, I know EXACTLY how that feels but you need to take it slow. I'll let you in on a little secret. The less he knows about you, the more he will wonder and think about you. It will drive him crazy. That was why he was bugging you so much. He probably thinks about you ;). As I was saying, just be friendly with him before you do anything major. As your friendship becomes more "casual" you can then ask him if he liked you. This is where the fork in the road is. This is the decision you have to make. If he says "yes" then you have to decide whether you want to be friends longer or become girlfriend and boyfriend. If he says "no" then you can decide to just stay friends or stop hanging out with him.

Sorry, I got ahead of the future, there, but I hope it all goes well for you. i'm still friends with my guy friend. We both like it better this way. :) Good luck! Hope this helps!

Answer 2

i think he likes u ; ]

Answer 3

Man up (so to speak) and just go for it!  Worst thing that happens is he says no.  I don't think that he's just saying that to comfort you, I think it sounds like he's really flattered that you've got a thing for him.  Go for it, have fun, if things don't work out they don't work out but at least you can say you tried.

Answer 4

I think he likes you ALOT. he seems like he wants to tell you and is waiting for you to tell him. You're so lucky...I'm not allowed to date until college.. :-(. and i'm only 13, i've gotta a LONG way to go.

Answer 5

Sounds like he likes you for sure.

Good luck.