Okay, i'm having troubled sexual dreams for last 3early mornings simultaneously,does anyone know what is it?

Question

I'm gonna explain everything in detail,cause i'm worried do i need to see a professional psyciatrist?

for last 3 days every morning I'm getting up with a weird dream that I'm having s*x with someone(i really dont remember the partner honestly) and in the dream just when I'm having the last act,and like about to reach the o****m, i get up only to realise that it was just a dream and because of that I feel aroused for a while.

Okay, I'have not been with any guy for last 6 months, I was in a very healthy relationship but due to some problems it didn't work out. I'm not at all into casual dating/s*x. However, i'd also like to mention that I work in the music industry and here s*x is veryyy rampant around me and everyone's just doing each other.And to some extent I'm put off by the male colleagues around me because of the same reason, so i'm taking my own sweet time to find the right guy and i dont think there is anything wrong with that.

anyways that was a little detail about me and getting back to the problem, no I am not at all into p**n films, neither I am thinking about s*x a lot off late, i dont get time for that.

But yes i'm young and attractive and I get asked out a lot by men.

all I want to know is, what these dreams mean, and why did it happen thrice.

is there something wrong?

Thanks for listening so patiently.

Answer 1

No, there is nothing wrong.  As you said, in your workplace sexual relationships are rampant and you are young and attractive and get asked out a lot by men, so obviously s*x is on your mind.  Evaluate your daily life, any stress you might be having, take a long, hot soaking bath, get relaxed and m********e to o****m before you go to sleep.  You just might have the best night of sleep you've had for a while.  And please forgive for being so forward.  

Answer 2

I dont think there is anything wrong with having such dreams... dont worry, u r alright... :)

@cable: I am 26 and still a virgin..

:) or :(( ???

Answer 3

ya dont let people prussure lol im still a virgen and i just say f##k what they say im only 18 so it dont matter

Answer 4

i dont c anything wrong with u or ur dreams(sexual ones ;) )

I went to UK for my master and didn't have s*x for 50-60 days..being a first yr student there was a lot of romance and s*x around me.. lot of boozing as well.. at times i had this strong feeling of s*x but i didn't masturbated either... and then i had some bad days with sexual desires and dreams..finally i had to find a girl to for my desperation and then it went fine for some days...soon I was in a relation and everything's fine since then..

Its not always what u want, its ur body as well... being a virgin is different thing and having a good gap in s*x is different...

ur call !

Answer 5

Hello Diva Girl

The situation you have described here points in two directions:

1) Subconscious urge to explore physical intimacy

2) Peer pressure at workplace

since you have mentioned that s*x is something not on your mind right now, however our bodies are programmed to set such triggers even if we do not want them to happen to us, this may translate into your dreams as well.

Also since your past relationship did not work out well and you do not believe in a casual relationship, probably your past relationship was in a good phase and broke off from there,such experience does hurt and somewhere you must have started confiding in that guy believing him to be an ideal match for you, this also mentally opens up our mind for allowing the opposite person we love to get intimate with us physucally, however that could never happen.

Since you also are facing peer pressure at workplace, knowing that your colleuges around like sexual perverts and even girls ready to get laid, it creates an feeling of being the odd one out in such group which leads to such visions, for example you see your female friend talking to a guy of your office, you watch them flirting with their actions and smiling off at each other, the thoughts that come to one's mind would be, even she is ready to get laid, and you get a feeling of being amongst desperate crowd.

I would suggest the best way to relive this tension within you could be practicing some meditation activity, take a break with some close friends, else try self help(u may understand), what the guys do very well, it may help ease up your tensions somewhat.