Okay, i really wanna break up with my boyfriend but...?

Question

i'm too nice too, and i have no idea how.

it's been almost 3 months and i just don't like him anymore...

but i have no idea how to tell him without completely hurting his feelings.

help please?

Answer 1

you just need to explain to him how you feel, and that you don't have feelings for him anymore.  It's only been 3 months, so i would do it now before you guys get more serious

Answer 2

well, the best way is just to be honest about it.  There is no way to do it without hurting his feelings, but at least you both know now.

I think the best thing for you to do is to figure out exactly what it is that is making you feel uncompatable with him, and just let him know.  Tell him he's an important part of your life, and you're glad you got to know him and you want to remain friends with him, but you don't feel the relationship is working out and it's not fair for either of you to stay in a relationship like this when there is clearly someone better for both of you out there.  Tell him you understand if he's feeling a little bit hurt right now, but he'll realize you are right.  Let him know that if he needs some space while getting over this, you understand, but reitterate that you would like to remain friends and you think he's a good person, but that ball will be in his court.

Say that, be pretty matter-of-fact about it.  If you start to get overly emotional and worried abotu what he's thinking, he may try to talk you out of it or he may end up losing his cool too.  The important thing is not to be wishy washy and not to lie.