Okay, so i have a couple a bestfriends and we alwasy get in fights. Why is that?

Question

I hav ea couple of bestfrinds. And alot of the time we fight over stupid stuff. But sometimes i get mad because they take my quotes. and sometimes they choise the boyfriends over me. and i would never choise a boy over my best friends. so why do they do that to me? i think i am great friend. but i guess they dont think so or else they wouldnt treat me that way right?? so confuess PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

i don't think they're good friends for you. You need to find friends that you can talk to and not get into fights, and ones that you feel are more loyal.  

Answer 2

it's healthy to get in fights with best friends. if they take your quotes, that means that they admire you. the highest form of flattery is emulation. if they choose their boyfriend over you, that just means that they are trying to make sure that their relationship is stable first because she might be afraid that her boyfriend might leave her if she makes him feel bad by choosing her friend over him even though she's known her friend longer. they truth is that she would choose her friend over anything, even her boyfriend, but sometimes you just have to let her adjust to this relationship and she'll come around. i'm dealing with the same dilemma. i feel as if my friend thinks i'm choosing my boyfriend over her, when i'm not. i talk to her basically everyday, whether it's via text message or telephone, and sometimes i wanna talk to my boyfriend, not to offend her. i would choose her over him any day, it's just that, i'm trying to make him understand that i need time for my friends as he does. i don't wanna ever have to choose between my best friend and my boyfriend because it's never pretty, but i choose my best friends over anything and everything.