Okay, so there's this girl and I wouldnt exactly call her good-looking..?

Question

She's 4'10, a little on the fat side, and isn't really pretty in the face. She have a freaky, trying-too-hard personality. She's ugly on the inside too..

Okay so there are these girls, kinda popular but not really, and they keep bashing her because she's a cheerleader, and she keeps saying she's not good enough because of what she is on the inside and outside. Sorry to say I couldn't agree more, and our squad has nooooo requirements, so anyone can get in. So that makes her feel even more bad.

She came to me and asked for advice. She wants me to help her. But I don't want to. She's gonna give me a bad name and I'd be known as "Katarina's friend" and I don't want that..I hate her...she's not the type of person that'd appreciate help anyways, oh and I cheerlead too.

SO.

How can I tell her to quit cheerleading, (She's too short to be in any position anyways, we're still trying to figure it out.) and just do swimming or something? And she tries to hard I mean on her myspace all you see is "omg i cheerlead" "freshmaaan JV squaaad" like everywhere. okay noone does that you don't put it all over your page it's just too tacky.

Answer 1

Ok... So you don't like her, you can't stand her, you think she is ugly. So what exactly is your point? Honesty is the best policy, really it is... You might just want to keep doing what you are doing, don't call her back if she calls you... Don't return the calls and don't reply to her instant messages or text messages. She gets the point! Really she does! Trust and believe me if I tell you that even though I don't know you or the "ONE" you are talking about, she is going to be the bigger person in this situation and she will be the "ONE" to not bother you any more. Remember we only have "ONE" life to live so be nice and have a nice life.

Answer 2

Woooooww. Talk about ugly on the inside. I think your life is just so lame that you're obsessed with this girl. You spy on her myspace page and now you're telling us all your idiotic "problem." She came to you for help, *** hole

Answer 3

I think you are just being nasty! get over it she is in the squad. No wonder she is not nice either by the sounds of the way she is being treated. I think its bullying. Just get on with it hun-you are going to come accross many people in your life like this and you cant always take action. If she has it spread accross her my space page then she is obviously proud of being in the squad. Why would you want to take that away from someone? Why dont you go swim if it bothers you that much?

Answer 4

Has it even occured to you that she is all enthusiastic and broadcasting it everywhere because she just really wants to be able to cheerlead? I can see that it is possibly something she is doing for popularitys sake, but she wouldn't tell you that if she is in that position. If she is really that enthusiastic about it, why not just let her join in for a while? Help her out a little.

You may have your own solution anyway, if she is too short for any position, then she will struggle with it, no doubt. And if it becomes really hard, she may think it to be more trouble than it is worth and leave on her own accord. But she could surprise you all pleasantly.

I don't see why you should be trying to get someone to quit cheerleading, when you have set no entry requirements. If you had entry requirements, or even some sort of physical test that they have to do well in, you may have been alright. But quite essentially, she has done nothing wrong. She doesn't sound like a horrible person to me, she's not stirring up trouble, or being abusive towards anyone from what you have said. The only thing that could possibly come from it is a slight drop in opularity on your part, which is forgetable and redeemable.

I would suggest being a bigger person and actually helping her.

Answer 5

Tell Her

Sry Hun Yur Fatt Maybe You Can Try The Chess Club  

Answer 6

Ok. Listen. If this 'ugly' girl, whoever she is, loves being on the cheerleading squad even though she gets royally teased, why the h**l do YOU want her out??? Decide whether you really give a d**n for her or not. If you genuinely feel bad about people teasing her, tell them its not very nice and get them to stop. But don't help her and continue bitching behind her back, that's just low. Whether you like it or not, you seem to come across as a totally self obsessed person yourself.

Decide where you're loyalties lie, you seem to want to have your cake and eat it too, if you know what I mean.