Okay I had a dream and it is TROUBLING me GREATLY!!?

Question

I dreamt that it was my 16th b-day(which is in 2 years). I went to school and all these preppy guys were kissing me. I'd just blush and say "thanks".

Then at the end of the day, I walked home, but I went a different route. I walked thru a field that existed only in my dream. I stopped halfway thru the field because there was a small park. I sat down on one of the swings in the park and watched as the sun set(which shouldn't have happened since the sun would be shining still after school in real life.)

I watched it start to set, and then my best friend(of the same gender) walks up to me out of nowhere. She says "um, hey there" in a nervous way and then kisses me on the lips. I was in shock but kissed back because I was enjoying it. I woke up from the dream when I started enjoying it.

I woke up in horror because I am Christian and I am straight. I love my friend but not in that way. This dream scared me. I shouldn't have enjoyed it but I did.

What does it all mean?

Answer 1

this is an unusual dream. I think it means you are secretly worried about being g*y and having feelings for this friend. If you really are straight, dont worry like people always say "it was just a dream".

Answer 2

I like fairelight's answer.

Answer 3

The kiss represents the deep intimacy you have with your friend.   Not sexual, but closeness.  Your response to the guys kisses (thanks and blushing) shows that you DO like the guys (especially the blushing!!!), but you're not quite ready for a deeper relationship with a guy yet.  

You go through a field and sat one one of the swings (this represents ties to childhood).  You're revisiting childhood, not yet ready to let it go.  But, you see the sun setting (on your childhood) meaning you realize adulthood is approaching soon.  The fact that you were halfway through the park probably means you are halfway through your teen years, on your way to adulthood (around age 20).

You and your best friend may both be nervous around boys, and you're both waking up to your own womanhood.  A lot of times, a kiss between 2 females in a dream indicates the "embracing" of womanhood or femininity... your OWN femininity.  

PLUS, though you are attracted to boys, you still TRULY enjoy the time with your best friend and the closeness you share.  You will likely not enjoy that kind of closeness with a male until you are ready to marry.

Dreams send messages in odd symbols sometime.  Your logical self freaks out over the pictures they show us.  But the underlying message will never be anything that is in conflict to the truth about you or what is going on in your life, because these messages come from your deepest spirit and from God.

Pray for wisdom.  Enjoy being a girl, and enjoy being a kid!

God bless you!

Fairelight

Answer 4

Dreams are mostly significant.

The symbols vary from people to people.

Nothing to worry.

There's a myth where "if you speak of your dream, it will never be"

which means that once you talk about your dream that meant serious to you, it will never happen.

Why do think De Ja Vu does happen? Cause you never talk about them. =]

Answer 5

Read psalm 91 during the day,...

pray before you go to sleep,....

ask GOD to give you dreams

according to his will,....ask him to give

you peace when you dream,...and peace when you

wake up,.....best wishes,....pleasant dreams Amen.

Answer 6

If you find preppy boys attractive, and many of them are kissing you this may indicate that your subconscious believes that they aren't important or their display of affection is not individual or important but one large blur; it detracts from their individuality and worth. Most importantly, the field can symbolize a journey and the sun set may suggest a transition or change in your psyche, but because it's early, perhaps your not ready to change  or are resisting the change, the fact that your best friend kissed you during the night may suggest you believe it to be sinful; as night is associated with evil. Your best friend may not symbolize your actual best friend, but a way of using a familiar person to ease you into this transition, for which you can draw your own conclusion. hope this helped and didn't worry you.

Answer 7

I wouldn't worry about your sexuality. You probably just have feelings that are expressed in your dreams that are put into faces that your mind is probably familiar with.

Answer 8

I would say that the dream simply is an acknowedgment of your newly discovered sexuality. I mean, you're 14, so you have hit puberty and are becoming an adult. The fact that you blush when the boys are kissing you shows that you are slightly uncomfotable with these new feelings.

The field represents a desire to be "open" with these feelings. The playground would probabley represent childhood, and the sunset represents the end of that part of your life.

Your friend kissing you is, most likely, not a representation of sexuality...A kiss on the lips, in traditional symbolism, actually represents closeness. Basically, the kiss just shows that you are uncomfortable, and you are looking for comfort, not nessicarily a same-s*x relationship. You enjoyed it because the closeness of your friend gave you a sense of security.

Hope this helps!