Okay im reallly confused?

Question

My fiance and i have been together for almost 2 years now, and i have seen him completely naked many times by now. But it seems to usually take FOREVER to get him naked every single time. A few years ago, he used to be really overweight, but now hes in great shape, in the army, and i think hes drop dead s**y, ESPECIALLY when hes naked. But for some reason, he is still insecure around me and i dont understand why. Sometimes i physically have to hold him down and get his shirt off (he takes it as play wrestling, but im really trying to get that thing off lol). So i dont understand, WHY is he so insecure around only me? How can i make him not insecure? I compliment his physique all the time and i truly mean it, but he doesnt believe me for some reason. Is it my fault?? I dunno what to do..

ALSO since me and him are getting married, and he has a real mom and a stepmom which hes close to both of them, does that mean i have 2 mother-in-laws??

Answer 1

You have a double dose of mother-in-laws.  Talk to your fiance about your problem.  People's personalities  do not change easily.  My husband's sure hasn't in 18 years of dating/marriage.

Answer 2

His self esteem is low and he is still  mentally seeing himself as overwieght. Keep the compliments up= it feeds his ego and take some pictures so he can see for himself what a hunk he is.

Yes, you will have two mothers in law but technically his mom is really the mother in law that counts

Answer 3

because his exterior has changed does not mean his interior has hes still insecure you have to work on building up his self esteem .....as for the mother in law stuff i guess you do have 2