Okay ladies, This is where a man needs your help?

Question

I want to do something lovely for my wife for our anniversary , but cannot think what would be perfect for her, I need some ideas to make it really special, so my question is

What would make your anniversary special?

It needs to be different from the usual flowers and chocolates, She is a remarkable woman and doesnt realise the good she does for people. Anyone who can help me I would be greatful

Answer 1

What a sweet man you are!!!  I would think just spending it with you would make it special for her.  If your looking to spend some money then i would say a nice surprise trip.  A couple airline tickets in a card would be awesome.  Every woman loves to travel with her man (alone).  Just came back from Aruba and we loved it, try it its very romantic there.  If your looking to keep it cheaper then I would surprise her with a romantic evening at home, cook a wonderful dinner and YOU clean up, include her favorite flower,flowers are so beautiful even though you don't want to do that but I don't know a woman that turns her nose up at them especially her favorite ones, a nice bottle of wine, dress very s**y, dim the lights with soft music and sing to her even if your voice is awful she will love you for it.  Have fun, and you really are a sweety to speak so highly of your wife, nice change on here thats for sure.

Answer 2

it depends what she likes?  and on ur budget...

1. a weekend away...away from the kids, friends, family, work life in general...so the 2 of u together, abroad like paris prague venice rome budapest or can be local too like somewhere in cornwall or lake districts

2. if shes into jewellery, that and dinner

3. a night out dinner, and theatre

4. if u on a tight budget...cook her a meal, clean the house, and get her something she can keep

hope this helps, and wateva u do she will love it coz u put so much thot into it and its from u! happy anniversary!!! x x x

Answer 3

Ditch her, come live with me.

Lol.

I am joking.

I'd like to be taken somewhere, meaningful.

Where you first met perhaps.

Although, you could buy her jewelry and get it engraved, my fella did that for me, it meant so much :)

Good luck (Y)

Answer 4

How about something really romantic like taking her on a surprise trip through a park on a horse and cart? ok too far fetched???.....well then do something that means a lot to the both of you! With the things you said about her in your question, you sound like you Love her very much....write her a love letter, come up with a treasure hunt with love filled letters and clues for her to follow! Come on man use your romantic side! lol even if you just tell her what you wrote on here...that she is so special! If only all men cared as much as you...the world would be a better  place! lol x x x good luck and enjoy your very special day!  

Answer 5

Why dont you take her to a special place that she likes or to a place where ye went on yer first date (if u can remember that lol)

or maybe cook her a nice meal and giv her a good massage lol im usless at these kinda things.. what ever you do anyway i hope ye enjoy.. best of luck 2 ye

Answer 6

Make a reservation for a weekend get away at a really great hotel or bed & breakfast. Buy and pack her some really great lingerie, champagne and any lotions or potions the two of you like to use. Surprise her with your plans and I bet she will be very appreciative.

Answer 7

You answered it yourself silly!

Ask everyone who you know to give you a quote about her and how much they like, love, care for, value her.

Make her a book or buy a beautiful notebook and put one quote on each page with the name of the person who gave you the quote. Your hard work and dedication to making her feel loved and cared for will bring a tear to her eye!

Answer 8

Since your a doctor how about visiting Rome or Venice, Italy.  That would be great for me, sure your wife would love it also.

Answer 9

well why dont you arrange a dinner w/ some of those special people she touches.

then take her to a nice Hotel : )

Answer 10

take her to the restarant or place you meet flowers and a gift thats come from the hart maybe a necklace or a peice of gold or something thats special that means somthing to you booth at the end of the day u sound like u still have that somthing special for eachother and as long as u have eachother am sure you wife will be happy no matter what the gift cause it came from u xx hope that helped you a bit    

Answer 11

Try making one of her fantasies come true, be romantic and loving show her how much she means to you like massages, candles maybe a weekend get away, could be camping  or  a hotel as long as you spend time alone and relax.  Good Luck!

Answer 12

Ask her

Answer 13

Ask her best friend. Trust me your wife has told her what she wants.

Always works for me...KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK...

Answer 14

That is very sweet.

Does she like picnics?

Does she like dinner at home or out?

Would she just like to sit and relax and have the house cleaned and chores done?

Is there something she has been wanting for a while?

A day without the kids if you have any?

Does she like horse back riding?

What can you think of that she just said she would love to do maybe she only said it once maybe she said it more then once.

It kinda depends on what she likes.

I hope I gave you something to think about. I know I asked questions but I do not know what she likes or what the situation is.

Answer 15

I would like a leather basque, lace top stockings, a leather mask, a whip and thigh high boots. .......oops I already have them lol

Hey invest in something that you can both enjoy - good luck.

Answer 16

ONLY you can make this occasion special because YOU know your wife and we do not.  You know what she likes and what she loves.  KNOWING all this...you have the power to make this very special for her without our help.  Enjoy and congrats!.

Answer 17

How about a  weekend of pampering or something spontaneous like a hot air balloon ride, or a bed and breakfast?

Answer 18

Why not take her to where you first met or had your first date?

Ot take her on holiday somewhere secluded and romantic, or (if you can and the weather's nice) take her out on a boat.

Answer 19

Buy a star and name it after her.

Answer 20

O bless, so sweet. Ur wife must be the most lucky women to have such a thoughtful caring husband. I have no ideas sorry, but whatever comes from ur heart i'm sure will be special. Good luck and happy anniversary

Answer 21

Take her away for 3 nights or so, just the two of you, to a romantic city where you can dine her, and romance her and make love to her.

Where the two of you can be alone to just talk and reconnect.  I know I would love that as a woman!  Have the wine and chocolates on the pillow at the hotel, and before you leave, tell her to go by something s**y to wear that you have a surprise for her!  You can tell her to pack, just don't tell her where you are going!!  And don't tell her you are taking her anywhere til almost the last minute.  YOU do all the kid planning if you have kids and pet sitting if you have pets etc...so she doesn't have to worry a bit about anything...even get her leave from work if she works....work all the details out yourself...women love it when men think of all the details and little stuff....they really think your brain is working then!! ha ha

Answer 22

spa weekend with all the pampering, swimming, gym. Just the 2 of you. Flowers in the room would be a nice touch. You will both come back feeling refreshed, you will have both had QT together, and your wife will feel loved and appreciated.

Answer 23

"She is a remarkable woman and doesn't realise the good she does for people."

Not knowing the likes of your wife I wondered what would be good for her. A few random thoughts. It is an anniversary for both of you. So, what do you both enjoy? Very often for women a break away from home where they do not have to cook/clean etc is very welcome.

I suppose the main criteria is your budget.

If you can cook, make her a nice meal. If you can't cook their are people who can come into you home to cook and serve a lovely meal (and clear up afterwards).

You don't say if you have young children, if you do can you get someone to look after then overnight and maybe book into an hotel in a nice setting for dinner, bed and breakfast.

If you are more mature couple what about a weekend break in a nice city in the UK or Europe? Paris, Venice or somewhere not too far. They do not always cost an arm and a leg. Is there anywhere she has always wanted to go to but not yet been that is do-able?

If Europe does not appeal there must be somewhere, even quite local to you that would 'fit the bill'.

Whatever you decide, I expect she would be thrilled that you have taken the trouble to do something a bit special.

Answer 24

I'm a guy but Im married to a great woman, does your wife like fashion? Well mine does so I've saved up for a while to buy her some genuine chanel stuff, I know she'll love it, even though I'm gonna be low on money for a while lol (but if you are getting her something like that don't forget to take a woman with you to advise you or it could go all wrong, fashion is complicated)

Or else you could write her a poem or a song. Or take her away for the weekend to somewhere she likes.  

Answer 25

it depends if you are thinking of spending.......

a holiday of course would be great.

but you have to focus on the things that she enjoys a romantic meal for two is not the way to go about things.

if you live in the country, hot air ballooning could be really romantic

you could go on a bike ride and then a picnic

or get her a really nice present and on the day form some sort of hunt for it, starting with breakfast in bed then sticking post it notes around until she finds the present????

hope that helped

Answer 26

Im no lady but how about a weekend get away at a really nice hotel?