Okay my lil sis hates me right now cuz i dont want her to have a b/f....and kinda scared him away...read plz?

Question

Okay my sis is ONLY 14, and i met her b/f....His older brother is a drug addict..so im worried about her with him,

anyway i was at the movies with my friends, and saw them togather, so i told her b/f to stay away from my sis...cuz i could tell he had a pocket knife in his pocket, but my sis couldnt tell

Am I wrong?, she wont talk to me cuz now he thinks she has a crazy family and wont talk to her....so now she hates me

How can i fix dis

Answer 1

shes 14 shes a big girl.....leave her alone

Answer 2

she should be glad that she has a protective brother but shes 14.

shes old enough to make her own decisions.

in time she wont hate you, so just wait it out.

Answer 3

Well I really dont think its any of you bis what she dose she is 14 so get over it! She can date who  ever she wants! And just cause his bro is on drugs dose sooooo not mean he will do that too!!

Truck (iam a girl)

props for bein a good sib though

Answer 4

It is all part and parcel of being a brother mate. I have been through all that with my little sister. From the age of 13 she was sleeping with blokes she did not even know. She had no self respect whatsoever. She is 15 now and thankfully has matured. Your sister will talk to you again soon. She just needs some time to calm down. Where is she ? Is she in her room ? Go and see her, tell her that you are sorry she feels how she does but you love her and you only want what is best for her. Give her a hug. Sisters like affection. After that, give her some space, a chance to calm down. I can understand why you done what you did, but in my opinion, you could have handled the situation better. Rather then threatening him, i think it would have been better if you talked to your sister on her own. She probably felt humiliated in-front of her boyfriend. How well do you know this guy ? His brother might very well be a drug addict, but ti does not necessarily mean he is the same. A lot of siblings are very different. Do you know what i think you should do ? Make the effort to get to know your sisters boyfriends and give them a chance. If after meeting them you still do not like them, then fair enough, you can intervene but everyone deserves a chance. Your sister will respect you for that. The one thing you do not want is for her to stop confiding in you.

Answer 5

You should talk to her about it and make some sort of agreement. Just remember to respect her privacy.

Answer 6

okay one, i'm sorry but your sister is 14, come on, she's not too young to date. two, just because he had a pocket knife, doesn't mean he's going to do anything, guys carry those these days and they don't harm anyone. you need to stop being so protective, who knows maybe her b/f doesn't want to be like his older bro. she's 14 she's old enough to date, give her some space. or she will really hate you.

Answer 7

she 14 but if u find them doing just make it clear with her and him hops this helps

Answer 8

It is wonderful that you care about your sister, but don't you think it is your parents place to intervene with her and her choice of friend's or boyfriend's?

Answer 9

tell her that you care about her and explain but don't be defensive about it. Just give her some space and she will get over it.

Answer 10

Tell your parents.At 14 she doesn't need to be alone at the movies with adult supervision,sorry,especially if she is dating druggies from da hood.

Answer 11

if u feel she is in danger push him away from her. keep annoying him and making him miserable. its her hating ur guts then  her ending up getting hurt

Answer 12

no ur not wrong im 13 and my sisters bf scared my old one away.... she'll get over it and he will to.... dont worry about it.... good luck with ur sister!!!!