Okay so I just turned 15 and I'm a female and I have been thinking about s*x alotttt ie dreams and everything

Question

I was just wondering if it was nrmal and if I was just to go out and have s*x if thatbwould help it or just make it worse.

Answer 1

Its normal, but then if you go out and have s*x, its not going to stop it. It will only make it worse. Three of my friends simontanesouly went out and lost their virginity because they thought it was time. (They're all around 17-18) Guess was the first thing they told me

"I regret it."

The second thing was,

"I'll kill you if you do it Nichole, I've never been more disgusted with myself."

These men ranged from boyfriend of at least a year, to a guy who didn't even know her name, to a best friend.

Answer 2

No it would not help. Do not go out to have s*x unless you are ready and dont do it with someone you dont know!

Trust me. I'm not a grown up i'm 16 and i'm saying this seriously.  

Answer 3

Completely normal.

We are kind of made that way.

Going out and having s*x will not make it go away.

You'll have these feelings for the rest of your life...or until you get married.   ;)

Answer 4

wait, watch and learn.

Learn from others mistakes before you even think about have s*x,

Thinking about it and asking us for advice show you have more sence than the other teens out there, you didn't just go out there and do it then come back and ask us what to do next.

remember that the 1st time is the the one thing that will stay in your head till the day you die, so make sure you are ready and the guy you choose is respectfull of females and is going to make your 1st a fairy tale and not a nightmare.

Answer 5

Yes it normal, and i doubt it would help.

Answer 6

Yes, it's fairly normal to think about s*x as a teen. All going out and having s*x will do is give you a HUGE risk of becoming pregnant or contracting an STD.

Don't be dumb...until you can afford your own medical bills or have your own health insurance, keep your panties on. A few mins of s*x and a climax, isn't worth 9 months of pregnancy, hours of painful childbirth, thousands of dollars in medical bills, and at least 18 yrs of child raising/responsibility....nor is it worth possibly contracting a disease with no cure.

Think about it. Fantasize and m********e. Those things are harmless.

Answer 7

s*x dreams are normal for mid teens

Answer 8

Yea that normal. Unless somebody just matured wayyyy late, but other than that yea, its normal. Having s*x might help, but you probably shouldn't do it. It hurts a soooo much the first time.  

Answer 9

Yes it's normal - I've been having those dreams since I was about 7 or 8 up until now but no one else knows I've had them already and I have a feeling they won't figure it out anytime soon ^^

Losing your virginity won't help - it'll just make the problem worse. Wait until you're married or emotionally/finanically ready to have a baby to start - I've heard lots of stories where someone became pregnant as a teenager because they've thought they were ready and weren't - and it ending up ruining their lives. Don't have s*x until you're old enough and you've found the right man and conditions =D

Answer 10

OMG. I can soooo relate. I've had so many s*x dreams etc. every since my 16th birthday 4 months ago. I guess it's those raging teenage hormones that got me thinking dirty. BTW it is so totally and perfectly normal so don't feel bad or anything and know that you're normal and experiencing the transition from child to adulthood.