Okay so Im Baby Crazy!

Question

Okay, So Im 15 years old and I Want a baby so much.!!..

Dont worry, Im not gonna go hop on a guy and Get prego.. But does the feeling of wanting one go away? Like is this a phase, or is it just the kind of person I am?.. I've always loved babies, but I've been wanting one really bad nowadays.

Answer 1

i was the same at your age, when i was 15 i told my mum that i would have a baby before i turned 21. well i was right i had my son 5 months ago. was hard not to think about it, as you only needed to see a baby and it would make you think you wanted one. but i waited till i was in a stable relationship and it just happened.

i think it is just the person you are, but i would wait at least till you finish school :)

Also i will be 21 in 2 weeks :P

Answer 2

I'd say, "yes" it's probably a phase..but also "yes" it's probably the kind of person you are.

Until I got pregnant (when I was 25!) I went through the same phase every few months. I'd be fine...wouldn't even think about babies for a few months and then bam! I'd want a baby sooooooo bad. That would last a while, and then I'd be fine again.

What you need to do is volunteer at a daycare, or start babysitting for some relative. You can get your baby fix, without messing up your chances of getting the education you need so you can be prepared for your baby later in life. Whatever you do-make sure you GROW UP first. You want to be out of college and have a steady job so you don't always think "if only.." Because you want your baby to improve your life, not make it more difficult.

Good luck, Stay in school, have FUN being a teen...as soon as you start paying your student loans, or a mortgage you'll realize how great it is to have no responsibilities..

but when you're ready for that baby (for real) it'll be great for you.

Answer 3

Your just meant to be a mom!  The fact that you are waiting unti lyou are better off just means that you are definitly the mom type!  I always wanted a baby and I got my baby when I was 20.  Just wait till you have a good partner and then the baby will just come.  I wouldnt say that the want will go away but you realize that it is best for the baby if you finish school and such!  I have a feeling that when the time comes you will be an awesome mom!

Answer 4

the best thing you can do is live you life, mature, go to college, get a career and some experience, buy a house, a car, get married, and then have kids.....think about it...u can give them everything they need, and a lot of things they want, and you will have set an excellent example for them to live up to!! it's nature telling u you want a baby, after all we were intended to reproduce; society today though makes it more difficult to do at a young age, so live life and have fun!!! then you can devote every moment of your life to a little one, and believe me...they WILL take it..LOL

gl

Answer 5

I went through the same when I was at your age. My friends thought I was crazy but it was a phase. I still wanted children but it wasn't thinking about them all of the time like I had been. Your time will come.