A couple of months ago my youngest daughter (aged 7) started spending her money on earrings 'ready for when I get my ears pierced' and on Saturday started showing me her collection. I'll wear these at school because school only lets you have studs in for sport, these ones would be good for ASH (after school hours), these ones match my red dress, these ones would go with with jeans and t-shirt' etc. I asked when she planned on getting them pierced, and she told me as soon as I told her she could.
I suggested we make it girls day. Instead of cooking lunch, we go to the Italian restaurant, then we go into town, buy ourselves new dresses, go to the cinema, get our ears pierced (my holes closed up years ago), then finish off by going for ice cream. All went to plan and we had a great day.
Now, my older daughter (aged 9) is mad at me, she was at her father's for the weekend and feels 'left out'. It was unfair for me to let her little sister get earrings before her (the reason being she never asked for them or expressed any interest), and feels I should have waited until she could have been part of the event.
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