Omg, i ask all of YAHOO FOR HELP Plz, i dont know how to overcome my problem :(

Question

ok, theres this guy i've had a wild crush on foreverrrs, and i know i cant ever have him, it sends me into depressions a LOT and i dont know what to do, i even think of suicide sometimes, but i know that if i do it, it wont be a failed attempt...thats why i'd wanna wait and be certain, i chose a date, the day before my 19th b-day, :( what should i do :(

Answer 1

Don't kill yourself just because you cant have your crush. Why can't you have this guy? If you do this think of all the people it'll affect. Because usually people who are suicidal are usually only about themselves and not about the people they would affect. Your depression may be serious and if you are that serious about suicide, you may want to try to get over it by yourself (that takes a long time, i went through depression and it took 3 years for me to get out of it without any help) or you may want to see a psychiatrist and get help with counseling and medication.

Answer 2

I can't tell you exactly what you should do, but you have already said that you know that you can't ever have him. If this is the truly the case then you are going to have to find out what it is in him that you think  you can;t live without, What is it he possesses that you think you don't. Because that is what you are trying to get by obsessing for him. For some reason this person represents all to you and you need to find it and learn how to achieve it and get it into yourelf.

No other person is ever going to be able to fulfill you, no matter how attracted you are to them.

You need to let go, and allow yourself to feel the pain of grief for a love lost that you could never have. Yes it is painful, but life is painful and that is what gives you a full and noble character, someone who is worthwhile to society.

Please don't end what a magnificent life you may have, look at what may be just around the corner and allow yourself to hope.

Mel

Answer 3

Suicide is NEVER the answer. No matter how trapped you feel there is always a way out. Everyone goes through depression. If you really like the guy you should just tell him how you feel, if he still doesn't like you than maybe he's not the right person. They should like you for who you are.

Answer 4

First of all I would seek professional help with the suicide thoughts.  NO PERSON ON THIS EARTH TODAY IS WORTH DYING FOR!  I do not know how old you are, but I would say that you have many years of life ahead of you and that God loves you!  I know it is not easy, but sometimes we have to have the courage and the strength to move on when we know something will never work out and trust and believe that God will guide us with every step we take.  God put you here for a reason and that reason is not for commiting suicide.  Please get counceling.

Answer 5

First, Ignore all of these really rude and stupid people.

Second, I know how heart breaking it is to be in love with someone and they don't love you back.

Third, I survived it, the pain went away after awhile and it will get better for you too. I promise. Don't kill yourself, then you wont find out how strong you really are,and you also would miss out on loving someone that will love you right back It will happen someday. My advice is that people should focus on being the right person for someone instead of looking for the right person. Talk to someone that you feel safe talking to, don't try to do it all alone. Everyone deserves to be appreciated and since you are not getting that from this other guy, you should be patient until you find the guy you deserve. Again, I am sorry you're heart broken, do something good for yourself I wish I could hug you so you would feel better. Take care.

Answer 6

Do it live on the internet.

Answer 7

first of all suicide is never the answer,it is a permanent fix to a temporary problem,you have to think about your future not your past.you are still very young,and you have the whole world in front of you,just because you can not have what you want right now,does not mean that it is the end of the world,your just confused right now,and let me tell you having a crush on someone,and knowing you can not have them ,is a hard pill to swallow,but do not give up,whats to say that things will not change in the next month or two,trust me there is always that someone that you will always want but can't have,but time will fix those kind of feelings in the future,take your time when it comes to finding the right one for yourself,and you never know,maybe the guy will be with you one day,heck later is better than never,hang in there ok,life is already to short so don't cheat yourself out of the rest of yours,learn to take the bad with the good,and start to believe in yourself more,and you just might get what you have been looking for,so please stop thinking of or talking about suicide,it is never the answer,trust me i once was in your spot,and i just let go of those feelings and i am d**n glad i did,and i am very happy now,and you will be too,just give yourself some time and go out and experience the world you won't regret it i promise. so good luck and keep on living for tomorrow and you will be just fine and i wish you all the luck in the world,and i hope you live to be 100...lol good luck in life.  

Answer 8

Try just talking to him and becoming friends first, and then you never know. Something may come out of it. Also suicide is not an option. You are not hurting only yourself, but others who care about you. And who says you can't have him? you never know, the more you work on it the more chance you have of being with him. Good Luck:)

Answer 9

You dont have a problem, its just an attraction, your only human, why wait, let him know how you feel, whats to lose, good luck.

Answer 10

You made me cry. Don't do it. Talk to someone about how you feel, a friend, relative, therapist, anyone you can trust.

Answer 11

I'm not saying this to be cruel, but there are three things you need to do:

1. Grow up

2. Forget about the guy and meet other people

3. Get professional help immediately

Answer 12

i know that when your heart is broken you can start feeling depressed and feel like life is not worth living but it is.... i have suffered from depression after a break up with my ex and it feels as though it is the worst thing that could ever happen but that will last for a few months and you should get over it. if you can learn to love yourself you can find love again. i still love the guy that made me so miserable but i know there is some other out there that i could love more and could love me just the same as the saying goes there are plenty more fish in the sea.

if this doesn't help go for counseling its nice to open up to a stranger you don't know that isn't going to tell everyone or judge you and totally understands you! it can help i know. I am now the happiest ive ever been i am going college and uni and making my life worth living and you can do that too and love from the perfect someone will follow.