Omg I need Help Husband and Baby on the way !!!!!?

Question

I am Being Abused by my husband and I am Having a baby I dont want my child to grow up in that kind of Envioment I am scared he slaps me he kicks me i look ugly and i havent told anybody if any of my family finds out they would be mad what should i do i am so confused

Answer 1

If you’re afraid for your immediate safety, call 911.

For help and advice on escaping an abusive relationship, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224

Just to let you know

If a friend or family member tells you that she is being abused, there are certain things you should NEVER do:

Never insist that she leave her abusive partner.

Why?

Understandably, it is very difficult not to insist that a loved one leave her abusive partner. Remember, a woman who is experiencing abuse often is very fearful of what will happen to her if she tries to leave an abusive partner. This may be because of threats the partner may have made to harm her, her family and/or her property should she try to leave. The sad reality is that many women are harmed by their estranged partners once they leave an abusive relationship and harassment can be on-going. However, if you can remain open to supporting her and respecting without judgment her decision to stay, you will establish yourself as a caring and sensitive ally that she can turn to if and when she is able to leave her abusive partner. Women must be ready to leave on their own terms — coercion and ultimatums by family, friends or outside agencies attempting to force them to leave, often cause women to become more isolated and disconnected from potential supports.

Answer 2

Leave....get some help and tell your family about it.  If they get mad it wont be at you.  Why would you even stay in a relationship like that.  I would have left the first time he laid hands on me.  Get out of this situation as soon as you can.

Answer 3

GET AWAY NOW don;t wait until the Baby is born. Your putting yourself and your baby in DANGER. File charges against him. How would you feel if he KILLED your baby.No man or women has the right to hurt another human or any living thing.Please leave him before you regret it.

I will pray for you and your precious baby.

Answer 4

where do u live?!?!?!!?!?

omg u need to go to a safe house for women an children!!!!

Answer 5

It doesn't matter what your family thinks. You have to protect yourself and your unborn child. Here is the information you need. Call them now!!

It's OK to ask for help

If you've been living with abuse, you may find yourself doubting your own judgment.

But, abuse often gets worse over time. It can cause chronic health problems, such as post-traumatic stress disorder, depression and headaches. It also can lead to injury or death. Children who witness abuse may develop health and behavioral problems, too.

If you feel threatened by your partner, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for help or visit www.ndvh.org.

Answer 6

restanging order....911......womans shelter...phone book

Answer 7

Don't leave. They say it gets worse if you leave. Domestic violence centers areall over, and they can help you get an escape plan together so you can successfully leave him without him tracking you down to do more harm. You're on the internet so start making contacts or call shelters. They can help you come up with the plan to leave. But get a plan in place before you leave.

Answer 8

That is awful.  I will pray that you have the courage and strength to stand up for yourself and your child and leave him NOW.  Go to a women's shelter or a trusted family member or friend.  Separate your finances if you can, and take any valued possessions with you.  If you are afraid he will track you down and follow you, contact the police and file a restraining order immediately.  Good luck and I hope you find the strength to leave him.

Answer 9

well first off you need to state the situation to someone that can help you like a very good true friend, a family member, anyone that could help you!

then you need to have you and that person come and state the problen to the police

then get a restraining order on your husband and DO NOT LIVE WITH HIM go to a women's shelter a friends house get an apartment or live with your family...they are going to have to find out sooner or later

next file for divorce you do not want to live in that environment especially with a child on the way

stay away from him but don't go hiding if you know what I mean

I hope for the best of luck to you and your child.

♥♥♥

best wishes

Answer 10

leave him especially if you bringing a baby and he still hitting you its only going to get worse

Answer 11

If you havent been strong enough to leave for yourself, do it for your child.  you said your family will be mad, but would that help you?  I am sure they much rather you and the baby be safe than any amount of anger they may have for you for staying in such a horrible situation.  If you dont think you can turn to your family, then you should turn to a battered womens shelter.  If in the end you decide to stay, you need to tell someone, take pictures of the bruises as well as document

when the beatings occur at the very least.  You maybe should even start a paper trail through your local law enforcement.  If you are in the situation where you feel your life is endangered and in defending yourself you seriously hurt him or kill him, you need some kind of documentation other than your word to help you.

EDIT:  I too just have verified through your previous questions that you are a teenager still in school.  There are women who are actually living your made up story.

Answer 12

leave and get help now!  call your family to get support --- why would they be mad??

Answer 13

Think about that Innocent child growing inside of you. Leave for your baby. He's a jerk and does not love you. If he loved you there is no way he would hit you. If you family is mad at anyone it's going to be your husband. Can you stay with a friend?

Answer 14

Your child is now the most important thing not u not ur husband. But if u are not safe or in good condition you wont be able to give your child any protection either you need to stand strong and get out now while u still have the chance. who cares what your family will say. Think about the results if u dont leave. if he beats you he surley will beat the child to. You dont wanna be another mother who has lost there baby from shaking baby syndrome because you were worried about what your family would say. Your strong enough leave and give that baby and you the life you both deserve. And as far as him hes a worthless dirt bag who needs to hit women to feel like a man pathetic!

Answer 15

This was your last question;

"What do you do about Goodies there are 2 goody goodies in my class how do i smashed them?

Rachel is a loser an so is her twin sister here name is Rachel Boogs i hate her she is no annoying how do i squash her and show her true COLORS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Being abused is nothing to joke about and it's not funny. Grow up.

Answer 16

you need to get away from him now. Before he hurts or kills you or the baby. Please i have been in abusive relationships get away. Go to a shelter for woman they will help you. Dont go anywhere where he will find you or it might get worse. Find a shelter in the area.

Answer 17

leave him! restraining order. If he's abusing he'll probably do the same to your baby.

Answer 18

I JUST READ SOMEONE'S COMMENTS AND HAVE LEARNED THAT YOU ARE ONLY A TEENAGER. I DID VERIFY THAT.

I WOULD SUGGEST DELETING THIS QUESTION AND GET A LIFE! THIS IS NOT A JOKING MATTER.

Answer 19

Go amuse yourself some other way, perhaps you could do your homework instead of inventing stories and trying to make people feel sorry for you. Abuse is no laughing matter, and for your sake, I pray that you never find yourself in a position to know just how serious it is.

Did you get good marks on this assignment that you asked about in your previous question?

"Facts about Pocahontas NEED THEM NOW!!!!!!!!!?

I need facts about pocahontas i need them for school my mother is in the hospital she broke her leg i need to go so please give me the following facts thanks bye the best will get my best anwser thing so bye bye @@@@@@@@@@@@@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Answer 20

call battered women in your area and they can help and go to your parents they will always help

Answer 21

Get OUT! Leave the relationship at once. You do not have to put up with anyone abusing you.  Your baby will deserve to be brought up in a safe, loving environment.  Tell your family, let them get mad, then your husband will know that he can not just do as he pleases with you.  Get a camera and take pictures, call the cops, dial 911 when he hits you.  Have your proof. Let your family help you, I am sure that you can move in with someone in your family.  Please do not let this man hurt you anymore, and if he is hitting you while you are pregnant, he does not care about you or your unborn child.  Protect your baby, leave him!