Omg i feel so bad!!?

Question

today i called an acquaintance (because i was desperate to go out, except all my closer friends were busy), and when i called, i couldn't bring myself to hang out with her, i realized i wasn't desperate enough to hang out with her, so i froze.... i heard her pick up the phone and say "hello? .......... HELLO?? ......... Brian...?". (Brian is her boyfriend).

does that mean brian is her only friend, or the only person who actually calls her...?

Answer 1

umm.

maybe her boyfriend was going to call her at that time.

And you sound really s****.. I'm sorry.

But I only speak the truth.

Answer 2

maybe she was expecting him to call.

Answer 3

No, her boyfriend is probably the person who calls her the most, that's all. Nothing to worry about.

"I wasn't desperate enough to hang out with her." --- What? lol Shouldn't you want to hang out with any of your acquaintances/friends? I'd be offended if an acquaintance or friend said that about me!

Answer 4

it means shes totally obsessed with her boyfriend and expects him to call all the freaking time.  

Answer 5

sounds like your a jerk. sorry but you said" I mean I wasn't that desperate to hang out with her"  

Answer 6

haha dont feel bad its okay. and she probably does have friends. if shes weird she has weird friends i guess lmao . but next time figure out if you want to hang out with her for sure before you call . haha  

Answer 7

I don't know, maybe she was expecting a call from him...and why is it any of your business if you don't even like this person?

Answer 8

no, that's silly. she might have been expecting a call from him. patch things up by calling her tomorrow and saying "hey, sorry about yesterday, my phone died. i was just calling to say hello and see how life's going"

turn it around or she'll figure it out and then you'll really be screwed.

Answer 9

Probebly this brian guy is the onely one that calls her and her only friend.

Answer 10

Yeah probably,

Some people aren't very good at making friends, Or maybe she was expecting a call from him that day..

I hope I helped :)

Answer 11

STOP! Don't jump to conclusions so fast. Did you think about this fully? There could be different possibilities. She might have just guessed it was Brian. Or maybe she was waiting for his call. Maybe something was going on with the relationship and she thought that he might have been to shy or nervous to say something.

But than again, maybe you're right. She might only have one person who calls her or only one friend. Is she a lonely person? Does she not hang out with people? If you are really worried or really feel bad I suggest you try to be nice to her. What is your relationhip with her? Is she just an off to the side gal to you? Do you even like her? Do you not hang out with her because she's not part of the "Crowd." But don't actually hate her? If you aren't friends but don't actually HATE her, and if you feel bad for her, and feel sad for her about friends, I think chatting with her every now and than or acting like a friend would be very nice. Just a simple smile or hello would make anyone who hasn't many friends day. I know that when I used to have no friends I felt SO good when someone would say Hi to me or just ask what music I'm listening to because I felt like they didn't hate me and actually recognized me. A simple smile made my WHOLE day. Because even though I wasn't friends with them just knowing that that people actually recognized me made me feel great.