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Question

Okay has anyone got in a fight with their boyfriend/girlfriend i mean like slapping like a physical contact like punching i have and im only 14 it was yesterday he push me i punched him and he slapped me and it went on for like couple of minutes and he said i told anyone he would get me for it and please dont tell me what i need to do i told on him and everything i just want to hear yall stories about this stuff like if it happen to anyone you know like love ones friends yourself and stuff and one thing about it i still love him for some odd reason

Answer 1

I was with someone who was physically and emotionally  abusive towards me for over four years - he is also the father of my daughter. When you're in that situation and have feelings for someone, you want to believe that they're good and that they can change or that it was a slip up but in reality they know what they're doing. Why would you lay your hands on someone if you cared about them? No matter how mad you are, pushing or punching someone you love is never going to make the situation better. It's okay to love someone after a situation like this, that is quite common but please stay away from this guy. I was also fourteen when I started dating my ex and not even a year later, I was pregnant and living a life that was much different than the way I thought it was going to be. You're still very young and you have so much life ahead of you, you shouldnt have to spend it this way. I'm sure you will do what is right, and good luck!

Answer 2

Either you love him or not won't make this relationship healthy. You should either call it quits or get in couple therapy.

Good luck

Answer 3

I knew someone who got into a very heated argument that turned violent. She was mad because the father would not take care of their daughter long enough for her to take a shower,he said some hurtful things to her and she ended up slapping him,he pushed her,she pushed him back and then he snatched her up by the throat and threw her against the arm of the couch.She kicked him,he had her on the ground choking her and then their daughter walked in on it(she was 2) They split up and have been civil to eachother every since. I think it was just their time to realize that it wasn't working and they were not meant for eachother.They still love eachother from what I hear but  they would never get back together. That was my cousin and her boyfriend...and although they get along now...if they were to get back together it would only get worse than it was before they split up.

Some people are just NOT meant to be together no matter how much they want to believe they are. Its better that you did what you did because a lot of women will not get out of a relationship due to fear when something like this happens...and they end up either in the hospital or the ground.

Know when its time to get away! And I believe you did.Good For you

Answer 4

i was in a physically abusive relationship, i stayed with him for 8 months scared to leave him because i didn't know what he would do. it's not anything any woman should ever have to go with. i was stupid but didn't know better. the first time he hit me i should have stood up and walked out, but he begged and pleaded for my forgivness, a slap would lead to a punch and things just got worse. if you ever end up in an abusive relationship again please get out, they're not safe physically or emotionally.

Answer 5

wtf! than y did you putthat title?

wow

Answer 6

If he is hurting you physically, or emotionally, leave him.  You do not deserve this at all.  You will still have these feelings for him, but life goes on.  Andyou you will sooner or later get over them.