Omg i hate my new school!!?

Question

so far i dont like it. well its not much the school teachings i dont like, its basically the kids there. they all hug eachother because about 90% of them know eachother from last year. i hate sitting in the corner by myself. and i tried to be nice, and i just smiled a friendly but they dont even bother to smile back and they only talk to their friends. not the new kids. some girls there are kinda nice but i only talked to them for a little and they went back to their other friends. plz tell me how to deal with this. when i got home i started crying myself to a nap because i miss my old school with my nicer and sweeter best friends. plz help :[

Answer 1

Aww sweetie I am so sorry to hear that!

Well I have been to about 8  high schools in my lifetime so I know what its like to be on the outside.

Here are some of my tips that helped me.

1.Compliments. Lets say a girl who sits next to you has some cute shoes. Just drop a line and make it into a conversation. Like:

"Hey your shoes are really cute! My name is (insert name here) and Im new to the school....do you like it here? Where did you go to school last year?"

Make a small statement into a conversation.

2.Afterschool activities. They are the best way to meet new people. Whether its cheerleading or Key Club or Homecomming Commity. And when you sign up for the new club make small talk into conversations like:

"Hey I just signed up for this club my name is (insert name here) and Im new to the school"

3.Being friendly. Always smile. If you look serious some people will take it as a bad attitude. Always look happy even if your not...I used to do that

4.Have fun! Its slow at the begining TRUST ME I KNOW its hard to see people hug eachother but you have to make it work. You will get friends soon and things will get so much easier. Then next year you will be the one hugging your friends and other people would be feeling on the outside

Good luck!

Answer 2

its natural to be nervous in a new school. don't worry...ur feeling this way now, but i'm sure after a few months u wont be saying this. just be yourself and try to mix in with people. talk a lot,make new friends. be compartible with everyone..its a key to make different people like you. be in touch with old friends and make some new ones too!

have fun,get in with people,u might not just love it the first day/week, but slowly i'll get used to it!!

gud luck! ♥~♥~♥

Answer 3

maybe you should try joining some clubs or sports that interest you because there probably will be people that will have the same interest as you.

Answer 4

hey ..dont worry ...you will be fine ..just give it some time....talk with everyone..and make jokes,...dont be shy ..

i mean when i went to my new secondary school...for the first time i was lonely and sad..no one was my best friend..cos everyone knew each toher from there primary school.. so they hanged around with their old mates .. anyways...only 5 people came to our school that i knew..and we got split ..so ..amke convo.. but now am in year 9 going on year 10 ..and luving it...iam a popualr gal now..am so happy..about it ..

get the attention for a bit..and talk and talk ..talk like u never talked before lol..  

and get in toruble ..and everyone will be saying ur name haha ..well everyone was saying my name when i went to year 8 and they stil do ahha

anyways ..enough about me ...good luckk....

tell ur mum .. and she will give u sum advice..dont be an emo plz

ahah no offence .....

serouilyy work hard....be indpendent den everyoen wil be comin to u !! .

Answer 5

High school will only get harder. Don't listen to that 18 wid a bullet guy hes an idiot. Well anyway. What you can do is not smile but start a convo. with them. Be extra friendly and you know just keep it going. Alot of kids are harsh in high school it's always that way.