Omg! i like this guy but he has a girlfriend..he says he likes me too..but i dont know what to do!!?

Question

ok well i text n talk to him..like every hour of every day!

he says he likes me..and stuff..hehe everyday he tells me im beautiful =]]

but i know that he has a girlfriend which sucks!!!

and he says hes having problems with hes girlfriend!

n a bunch of people came up to me n told me that hes a player!!

ughh..plzz give me some advice!!

Answer 1

hey u know him best.... if you like him then wait for him to break up and make your move... until then just hang out like friends so his girlfriend wont suspect anything... but hey theres one more thing to think about. if he likes you and he has a girlfriend then maybe when your his girlfriend he'll be like this to someone else.... good luck!!

Answer 2

Well, I suggest so you don't get into a b-slap fight that you wait till he breaks up with her (whitch sounds like soon) then wait about a week and a half after when they broke up then get together with him.

Answer 3

one word:PLAYER!

Answer 4

as much as you like this guy, you have to stopp liking him/texting him. if he's got a girlfriend, and hes hitting on you..that should tell you enough. this boy is a player. and once your his girlfriend, he'll most likely do the same thing he's doing with you and this girl.

good luck<3

Answer 5

Um.. Boys only want ONE THING.. (well, not all) But keep that in the back of your mind. Once he gets that, he will probably come up with something like "My Girlfriend and I are back together, so can we be friends?" or sum B.S like that. If he really wanted you and if he was really have detrimental problems with his girlfriend, then you probably wouldn't even be here asking this question.

&& listen to those people. Apparently, they know him more than you do.

Answer 6

same prob here girl.before i was going out with this guy he had a girlfriend and his girlfriends cheated on him so ppl went to her side and started making romours about him so dont believe all the ppl.and he wants to go out with you it's just he cant figure out a way to break up with his girlfriend.give it some time and he'll do it soon.

                      hope i helped!!

Answer 7

Why is this in the fashion category?

More importantly why are you messing with some girl's guy?  If you were that girl I'm sure you wouldn't be too pleased about your boyfriend talking sweet to another girl.  Just because he's having problems doesn't make it right.  Also think!  If he can do this to his girlfriend, and in time you become his girlfriend, don't you think he could just do the same to you?  I say get away from this guy and fast.  Sounds like a player to me.

Answer 8

oh haha....i just got a boyfriend today...sucks for you!

Answer 9

well maybe you shuld just wait to see if things work out with his gf and if it doesnt maybe see if you and him work out. but dont try to steel someones bf because just imagine if someone did that to you.

Answer 10

  dont do a d**n thing with him till this other girl is out of his life, otherwise you just become the other woman, and NOOO good can come of that, ever.

Answer 11

you shouldent do anything, he should break up with his gf before you guys get together, and dont do anything until then even if he says he will break up with her, you wait until he acctually does otherwise he could just be stringing you along and have no intention of dumping her...

Answer 12

umm i 'd say dont go for it unless he breaks up with her. because thats how fights start...lol firstly make sure this guy's girl friend is not jacked or the group shes with... you dont wanna be getting into a fight loose and loose the guy.

Answer 13

look what he's doing to the other girl, that's how he'll b with you.  

Answer 14

Well dont believe what other people say, give him a chance first.

and if you see anything suspicious then end it. I say give him a chance though, s***w what other people think and say,

you dont REALLY know a person till you try.  

Answer 15

Stay away he has drama written all over him

Answer 16

Don't be another hoe on the side.

Answer 17

Till his girl is gone, that is not your area you should be going.  Tell him to make the decision and not be playing.  Be the better person and don't go for a guy who plays multiple girls.

Answer 18

Well, me being a guy, and a guy who has been in that exact situation, maybe i can help. I would say that if you really really like him and you think he is genuine you have to follow your heart. Really think about it though and ask yourself is it just a foolish thing you have for him, and if you still think you like him enough to go after him even with his girlfriend then go for it, you only live one time, and if it doesnt work out, oh well, who will remember it in a year anyways, or even 5. But also think that if he would cheat on her, maybe he would do the same with you..... maybe not though

Answer 19

get over him. just think about it. if he has a girlfriend and is flirting with you, what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you if you WERE dating him?

Answer 20

Forget that one. Try a new one who has no girl friend.

Answer 21

I would NOT recommend getting involved with him while he has a girlfriend. It will only cause problems for you, him and his girlfriend. If he does leave his girlfriend because he likes you so much, then hey, go for it. But keep in mind: once a player, always a player. What makes you think he wouldn't do the same thing to you? I know it's harsh to hear, but I think it is smart and fair. There are plenty more guys out there that are single and probably just as good as him. I know right now it may seem like there's nobody better than him out there, but trust me: I'm sure there is. If you don't want to take action, just lay low until something happens. I'd say you should stop texting him, because who knows? His girlfriend may look through his phone one day, and that will cause major trouble for him and for you.

Good luck, hope this helped!

Answer 22

tell him your not gonna date him unless he dumps her, you don't want trouble

Answer 23

just wait until they break up, then if you really trust him not to play you then ask him out. Theres nothing wrong with girls asking guys out. Just dont throw yourself at him.

Answer 24

You are SO clueless..

Answer 25

If he really likes you he would break up with his girlfriend, but if he asks you out say you will think about it. I know you may not want to, but talk to your parents, they help more than you think. Then you imagine what it would be like with him. Hope everything goes well and hope I helped!!!