On a scale of 1-10???

Question

How often to do and your husband/boyfriend/fiance have arguments or serious fights?

Are your disagreements normally easy to mend or do they last for days? My last question is: does your partner say they are sorry and if they did not would you have resented feelings? (Can you find closure, without an apology?)

Just curious and thanks in advance.

Answer 1

we have big arguments he ends up leaving comes back doesnt say sorry he just pretends it never even happend makes me feel like **** like iam nothing to him ...but in time things will change for me lol

Answer 2

Well, I think part of the relationship means accepting and apologizing  that you made a mistake. If the other person doesn't apologize or accepts their mistakes, I think there might be something that one did wrong. You see, we are so good at pin pointing at others mistakes, but we don't realize that we too sometimes are wrong. For that reason, we close up in our selfish minds thinking that the other person should have apologized, while we fail to do the same thing. I think that when you want something you gotta act it out first. To get respect you gotta give respect. If we fail to look at our own errors, then we might feel resentment towards our partners and not realize what we did wrong. Me and my husband fight very often. But I realize he is very inmature and insecure. Part of his insecurities are based on his feeling inferior around me. He says I am way too much smart for him, and therefore I think everything he does is wrong. And yes, he apologizes for every wrong thing he does, but I think he does that only to make me shut up. Although he looses the concept of making things different the next time. On a scale of 1-10. I think the number of times we fight daily is 8.                            

Answer 3

My boyfriend and I have arguements about mainly stupid things and occasionally serious things. The times also vary as to how often we fight (I'd say a 5 on the scale). They never last past a day, neither of us likes to bare a grudge, or stay angry at eachother. Well, honestly I've been known more to be the stubborn one that will. He is the most amazing man in the world and will always apologize for something he's done wrong, regardless of how small. There have even been times when he's apologised when he hasn't done wrong. I love him to bits and he is certainly making me realise more and more as to how to be a better person :)

Answer 4

In a previous relationship of 9 years,I had arguments daily.But in his case he started fights just to have a reason to leave.He would come in and say things like the couch is out of place!!Just being stupid I guess.He never apologized not one time.I still can't stand to see him to this day and I have been remarried for 3 years.I cant seem to keep my hands to myself when I am around him.My husband now of 3 years is the best thing that has ever happened to me.3 years and not even a bad look at one another.I think it was God's will for us to be together because if I were to be the same situation I once was in I would have already killed him or been dead.

Answer 5

we used to fight all the time so badly that everytime we did we'd discuss breaking up. then one day we had a reallly big honest talk about how we each felt, including the bad things that i thought id never say. now we hardly ever fight and when we do its easy to mend becuase we know how much we mean to each other.

apologies are important!

Answer 6

I Have been with my fiancee for almost 2 yrs.....we did not have one argument until about 1 yr into our relationship. since then maybe only 2 or 3 arguments that were resolved within 10 minuets and we both kiss and makeup/ out.

Answer 7

depending on the stress level at the time...I'd say at worst it has gotten to a 8.

But it's soon forgotten and no one apologizes which goes to show it was a stupid argument in the 1st place.