On a scale of one to ten how many of your relationships?

Question

are actually a ten? Mine right now is probably a 6. It's more on the greater side, but not that great. Some life changing situations are coming soon and my 6 will probably be a 2 soon because I may or may not have a relationship. How many of you are actually happy where you are at in your relationship? Please rate from 1 to 10. I just want to see the average.

Answer 1

I would have to say 9, because it can't be a 10 every day.  We are engaged, and sometimes I have more like a 7, and sometimes more like a 12!  (I hope the wedding day is 15+!)

Answer 2

7

i love my husband and adore my marriage but we have our up's and down's

Answer 3

Right now - a 7 due to some intimacy issues. But we came into this relationship with baggage, and we're going to counseling to work those kinks out. He's a good man, but he's been hurt pretty bad. My love for him is a 10, but our relationship can only get better - I hope.

Answer 4

About a 9 1/2.

Answer 5

9, I have a great husband and marriage.  

Answer 6

I would say a 7 or 8, we dont have the perfect relationship, but we hardly argue, i am extremely happy, and there is no way anyone is perfect, let alone 2 people, so no one can answer 10...honestly my relationship is closer to 8, but im just being honest, because we have our ups and downs just like any other couple, but our ups are amazing, and our downs are barely there!

Answer 7

a 10

reasons why

1) he tells me and shows me he loves me

2)the best father my daughter could have

3)we are the same age with similar pasts and grew up in similar families (in other words we can relate)

4)he's my bestfriend i can talk to him all day about even women stuff.  we do everything together.  honestly i hate girls night out bc he isn't there so i just don't do it anymore.

our only problem is that we don't get enough time together  

Answer 8

I would say a "8".  I love my wife and we have been together since 1981.  Of course there are still things we can improve on, but overall I feel we have done well with and for each other.

My humble advice is not to give up.  Good things are worth fighting for.  

Answer 9

I think it is rather sad that a person has to rate their marriage.  All marriages have their ups and downs.  One day it can be a 10 and the next day a 1.  Marriage takes work.  The two have to strive and work things out to make the marriage a good one.  

Answer 10

I would say an 8.5 and I'm a newlywed! But it fluctuates day to day but at the end of the day when all is said and done we are in love and we work well together so I can't complain

Answer 11

I would have said a definite 10, but when an old woman friend of my husband's asked him this same question, his answer was: "Well, it sometimes is good but it can get bad, too."   So, that makes me change my answer now.  I give my marriage about a 7- or 6+...sometimes even a 5-

Answer 12

i have things coming up in my relationship that will make it difficult too, but that doesn't mean the quality of the relationship will go down. no serious relationship goes without any form of difficulty or "hard times." i still love my boy friend more than anything, or anyone else in the world, no matter what we go through.

so to answer your question, it's a 10, but a few bumps in the road aren't going to bring us down.

Answer 13

8-9 (id say 10 but no one is perfect)

we have beenhappily married 5 yrs so far...have to kids and we have great familes and friends too

i hope things work out for you:) good luck...

Answer 14

I am in a relationship with a wonderful man and we are in love.  We are to be married in two weeks and I couldn't be happier.  We have both been married before and know what it takes to be happy.  I would say that we are in a "10".  I don't expect the honeymoon to last forever but will enjoy it as long as possible.  Hope you can kick it up to at least an 8!