On-line dating . . is it pitiful ? ?

Question

To rely on this service somewhat sound like the last resource within your reach

Answer 1

To rely on it may not be good, but is a good and easy way of getting into the dating scene.

Remember there are millions of people using and they are all looking for the same thing. I know plenty of people that met this way and got the greatest partners for them.

You'd be surprised at how many extremely beautiful people use this service, in a quest to find honest people that look at the inside first.

Answer 2

not at all...   i think of it as being similare to having a blind date...

you each know a little about each other from a third party...

it's up to each of you, as to how much that third party know's to begin with...

That's my thoughts...

--James

Answer 3

It's completely fine.

No different that hitting on someone at the grocery store, or a bar, or anywhere else for that matter.

Pitiful is paying someome like Great Expectations $3000 to find you a match.

Answer 4

nah.. it just opens up a whole new field of play.. it is like holding your cards in one hand and getting a whole other set to increase your odds...

Answer 5

It is the last resource but I don't think it's pitiful. I am considering on-line dating too. This is the new millenium and I'm open to new things. The "dating pot" is null and void here in this small town in GA in which I am located. I need more options and this offers just that. I'm going to be careful & take my time. I haven't actually talked to anyone yet but I am looking at photos. Baby steps!

Answer 6

it may be good for others but i think it's pathetic if i do that for myself. i don't care if i don't get married anyhow. :-)

Answer 7

nah.. its not pitiful... But you need to learn how to date online. because most often the men to women ratio is pretty screwd. There are way too many men on these sites than women.

if you are women then its pretty bad experience. You'll get flooded with emails from men ranging on topics from s*x to what not... h**l they'll even want to become your sugar daddy...

things are not good even if you are a man. its tougher for a man to survive in online dating... Here are some do's and don'ts for a man

-> Add picture to your profile. If possible add picture where you are having fun.

-> add some personality to your profile.

Do not add nude shots of yourself or your p***s.

Do not add close ups of face so that even your pimples marks are visible.

Do not add small pics if someone has to use magnifying glasses to find you.

Answer 8

Never had to do it- I married pretty young but I think I'd rather try online dating rather than bar hopping.  I hated that scene and now that I'm older I could never do it again.

I think online dating is a great way to meet people.

Answer 9

I know 2 couples who met that way and both are still happy after years together. The world has gotten bigger - its harder to find your soul mate these days.