One BIG problem........ !?

Question

ok.. i usually go out with jerks...(skaters,emo guys,rockers,etc.)

at the moment... i am going out with someone... the usual.. lol

HOW do i kno he isn't the same as the others...??

cuz it seems to good to b true..??? \any advice wud b appreciated

:)

Answer 1

Just get to know each other, there may not be anyway of knowing instantly.  All you can really do is be yourself and be real with him about your feelings.  Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there :)

Some men may say stupid things they don't mean.  If he says something hurtful tell him.  But at the same time listen to his actions

communication is the key.

Best of Luck

-xoD

Answer 2

he is because all men are the same all nationalities

Answer 3

You need to take it slow, time will tell. and do not give all of your goodies up to fast, keep the surprise for some special moment.    Remember everyone is different, so do not bring your luggage into this relationship.  

Answer 4

u shouldn't judge the new guy by what the guys in the past did. just go out to dinner with him and have a conversation with him about what he likes and what he doesn't like. but try to throw some things about u in the conversation so that u don't seem like an investigator or  some thing

Answer 5

As a guy, I'll confess that about 9/10 guys are players and after that 1 thing :)  lol, at least based on the people I know.

I always thought that skaters and emo guys are the good guy type??!?!?!! Apart from preppies, I don't think there is any other good guy 'type'.

Anyway, a good idea is to take it SUPER SLOW. Most people rush in so fast that their heart gets broken so easily and quickly. Take baby steps, and make sure that you know that the guy is a good guy every time you take a step.

I've had my heart broken once when I was 15, and to be honest it helped me a lot in the long run. Getting your heart broken young (when you don't have much other stuff to lose) can be very educational. Its really easy for me to spot the good girls from the bad, and anticipate the what a girl will be like just from 1 minute of chatting with her.