One of my best friends died...what do we do now?

Question

I'm 14 and hang out with a group of a bout 6 really close friends. One of these close friends passed on last year. We were all devastated. We all have myspaces, and she's all on our top friends and there are old comments from her and stuff....Should we keep it all or delete it or what...

we know her password so we can get into her myspace and delete her account if that's what we decide to do. What do you think?

Answer 1

I would leave it, and maybe make it a memorial site for her. I'm very sorry for your loss. =( May God be with you and your friends.

Answer 2

i think you should print out her comments, then delete everything.  you'll still have them, but there won't be a constant reminder when u r on myspace.  :)

i'm really sorry she died.

Answer 3

Leave them, its a nice memory of her

Its what I would do

Answer 4

I am so sorry to hear this. I would have felt the same way. I think you should keep her page and keep it in your heart and all her wonderful comments and all. I know you love her but sometimes you just have to let go. Again, I am so sorry to hear this.

Answer 5

if its on private, you should take it off private.

and set it so when people request her, they need to enter her last name.

(if her last name isnt her real last name, change it to her real last name. that way only people from school will know her last name and that way stalkers cant add her )

set it so anyone who requests her, it automatically approves.

then you dont need to log in every once and a while and approve friends

im really sorry about her, and i hope your doing well.

Answer 6

omg im soo sorry!!

keep her account for memories!!

Answer 7

awwww,

i am so sorry,  i think you should keep it

and make a dedication site 4 her

thats what some people at my school did 4 a boy they all knew from a different school,

its thoughtful, and every1 would really appreciate it

=]]

Answer 8

Today marks the one year anniversary of a dear friend that tragically passed a way last year. We all, too, have Myspace and we all still have him on our friends list. It's a way of honoring him. People go on his page & leave him comments all the time. It's nice to know that even though he's not here, he's not forgotten.

I think you should let it be.  

Sad to know that our justice system doesn't live up to the standards. The b-tch that took his life (drunk driving) got 2 years in jail (9 months time served) and 3 years probabtion. That's what a life is worth these days?? 2 years??

Answer 9

she was close to you. i lost a sibling and i still keep his pictures/stuff around.. you should try and move on but that doesn't mean you have to completey forget. i would leave it alone unless it is upsetting you too much  

Answer 10

I think you should keep her account and comments, just as a memory of her, so that if you do miss her you can remember what her personality was like.  Sometimes it's not always the bad thing to be sad about a tragedy, and it's good to keep the memory of her alive!

Answer 11

Why delete her? And I think it goes deeper than "myspace".