One of my friends husband died in a helicopter crash 3 months ago.?

Question

My friend is sooo beautiful. Anyway, she just remarried. People, not me ask her.."Wow you sure got over your husband right away.".(I feel that is rude of them.).But she politely answers..."that is what he would want me to do live my life"..and slowly walks away. I thought that was a great comment!!! What is your opinion???

Answer 1

She should say

'Wow, you sure don't give a sh*t about other people's feelings. Or maybe, unlike you, I've decided to live my life and get on with life instead of living like a jealous - coz you honey, clearly are jealous that I'm having the time of my life with my new man, while you are fat, frumpy and loveless, therefore you have nothing better to do that backbite, backstab, and be a spinster in general. Why not go back to your knitting honey!'

That's what I'd do

But she's very gracious

she could also add

'You can say all you want about my hubby not even being cold in my grave, but yours is probably freezing and needs warming up. Maybe you should remarry'

Or even

'Jealous sweety? Shall I fix you up with my husband's friend, Mark? Here's his number. Call me to your wedding daaarlin'

Answer 2

Being a Helicopter Pilot normally requires being away from home for extended periods of time. I suspect she was seeing someone on the side long before he died

Answer 3

Did they determine why the helicopter crashed?

Answer 4

She must have been seeing her "new" husband before her loss, still -  I personally think three months wasn't long enough.

Answer 5

My opinion is that this has very little to do with the aviation category as such.

Answer 6

does she slowly walk away like in the 'Matrix' movies? cooooooooooool...

Yes. Very heart touching indeed.

EDIT:

by the way, ask this question in 'polls and surveys'. You will get more answers there

Answer 7

i have 2 opinions

1. this doesn't really have much to do with aircraft

2. either she was already seeing this new guy, or it's a knee-jerk reaction because she's suddenly very lonely and it won't last long

Answer 8

That is weird that she is seeing someone so soon let alone the fact she is getting married within 3 months of "seeing" the person.

Answer 9

Considering the comment, I think that her reply is very gracious.

It may have been that she and her first husband had discussed this very thing long ago. Men who care about their wife's feelings and who have dangerous occupations often do this, as do others who know that life can end at a moment's notice.

The person who made the original comment needs some lessons in tact, in my opinion, as it is non of their business.

Regards,

Dan

Answer 10

I was expecting a question about an aircraft but I'll try and answer this anyway.  Marrying again after 3 months is not good.  Either she was seeing this guy on the side, or she doesn't know the person she's married to.  You don't know a person after 3 months, and if she had any character, she wouldn't have jumped in his bed so soon.  Furthermore, what kind of loser marries a mourning widow on a 3 month rebound?  Why would he want a woman who isn't of sound mind and heart yet?  Those people you think are rude are correct, but the fact that you are here asking this question means you have some bit of good sense in you, a part of you needs confirmation that what your friend did is right.  It's not.  Today is 8/26/08, a year from now put an update on Y.A. to let us know if they're still married.  But put it in the morality or love section please.