One of my friends who I've ben friends with forever doesn' like me anymore she never calls me and is bratty

Question

I'm not sure if she's still my friend because we have a good laugh every once in a while but I never go to her house and she always seems to be busy when I call her to come over what do I do

Answer 1

Some friends come to you for a reason.

Some friends come to you for a season.

Some friends come to you for a lifetime.

Some friends you encounter are because there is something you need to learn from them or to teach them.  When the lesson is done, the friends drift appart.

Some friends you encounter for a longer period of time.  Often when you need each other most.  When you need their support (or visa versa). When the need is past, you part company and drift apart.  You may still keep in contact from time to time, have a few laughs, remenisce, but the closeness is severed.

Then there are friends for a lifetime.  These are the friends you have all through your life. They can be realatives, or not.  They will stay with you through thick and thin.  They are you support structure.

As to your friend, she is still a friend (after all, she's not an enemy).  But your lives have taken different paths now. She is busy, you are busy, and never the twain doth meet.  Enjoy the times you do have together. Do not severe the connection completely.

Answer 2

sounds more like an acquaintance to me.i have one of those too.she don't have the time to spend with me like she used to.she has new friends now.buttt that's life i guess. get another new best friend and make your acquaintance call you when she wants to talk.

Answer 3

It sounds like you two may be heading in opposite directions as you are growing older.  That happens a lot in friendships.  There may be a day when she realizes that she has a good friend in you and decides to be a good friend but for right now I would let her go and find other friends to hang out with.

Answer 4

she could just be trying out other life points of view, soon she should figure out or be told that faking who you are is just a waste of time and to just be yourself can change not only you but also the preppy people around you.

Answer 5

dont be freinds with her or just make  her jeleses by finding a better freind

Answer 6

Find a new friend that appreciates your friendship more.  Have you ever asked her wahat is wrong?

Answer 7

These things happen...take it as a sign to make some new friends and maybe she'll get over whatever she's going through and come back to the friendship.

Answer 8

Get a new friennd or a new sence of humor probly she is bored of you that you always do the same things together maybe she just whants to meet new people. It is almost like you do you ever eat the same choclet bar or candy. Do you stay with you'r boyfriend for ever. Probably you do but other people don't. Get over it.