One of my nicest cousins died this time last year and i am so depressed now

Question

last year i was just in so much shock that i didnt know how to react and now this year i remember and i feel so sad and terrible. any advice on how to feel better?

Answer 1

When my mother died my daughter said "We should do something nice on Nana's anniversary - she wouldn't want us to be sad" - so we did.

10 years ago my daughter was killed in a car crash.

Every year, on her anniversary, I remember what she said and I make sure I do something nice cos I know that she would not want me to spend the day in mourning for her.

I do hope this helps you a bit.

Very best wishes - I hope you find something really nice to do - it will be a tribute to your cousin.  UK

Answer 2

just do wat i do. try to remember all the good times u had with them. it might be hard, but know that they loved u and cared 4 u and u did wat u  could to make them happy and make life worth living. remember its not ur fault they died. hey, my cat died a week after my 11th b-day. that was hard. i had just gotten a ds lite and i played with it the entire week before she died. i felt bad but my dad said it wasnt my fault. i just got a new toy and was playing w/it and its not my fault she died. just keep living life they way the would have wanted- happy. try to stay strong. i know how u feel=)

c u in the fall!