One ro two questions: plotting hypothetical family muders and "outside help"?

Question

lately i have been plotting hypothetically on how to kill members of my family and stuff. i am just wondering if there might be any serious phycological problems to do with that. i dont need any: "your crazy" or "go see a doctor" answers but i would like to know any oppinions about thoughts like that, and wether it does imply a serious problem. i have depression and OCD so maybe it has something to do with that.

i was talking to the head of the social inclusion department on the phone today, and she asked how i was doing and i was honest and i said "not brilliantly." then she asked if i might want some "outside help". I am not entirely sure what she ment by this. wether she ment finding another therapist for the summer hols becaus my one's away, or something else. (by the way, school summer holiday till 9th september)

thanks for reading this and any asnwers are appeciated

Answer 1

I think you need to stop brooding about yourself and go out and do stuff. Start working in the community. Volunteer with Habitat for Humanity or some such organization in your area. Helping other people helps yourself.

As to plotting family member's murders . . . first of all, planning is not illegal. Carrying it out is. If you're doing it just because you're bored and have nothing better to do--which, based on the fact that you say 'members' of your family rather than just one in particular, might be the case--there's nothing really wrong with that. If you're really genius enough, you could make it into a novel and earn Stephen-King millions. If you are planning the murders because you actually want to carry them out, that is definitely bad. I would still try and turn it into a novel, in that case, because you might realize that you don't hate them as much as you thought you did when you've got a novel full of villians that ordinarily wouldn't be villians in any other story.

If they have done something to deserve your hatred, of course, that's another story, but I doubt that. You sound like an ordinary self-obsessed, narcissistic teenager with nothing better to do than go on myspace and surf the net and ponder on the meaninglessness of life. Definitely not healthy, and not what you should be dwelling on.

Go get a life, and you'll be less depressed. I know it.

Answer 2

Well I must say I dont completely know about the whole psychological problems (if you've ever attempted to act on them i'd b worried) but I do know the feeling but I think its less of a psychological go get a psychiatrist type of thing and more emotional

I think a person's best psychiatrist is themselves I think you should look into what has you thinking like that & try to resolve that issues within in yourself & then with a family member

I mean if you think about it, it never pays to sit & talk to someone when problems can be solved by yourself just by being brutally honest with yourself & opening up more to everyone including you

I hope this helps

Answer 3

Ah your too cool. Actually, I wonder about that too, I would just hire someone to hire someone to hire someone to kill them all, and then I'd kill them, and it wouldn't be traced back to me.

Answer 4

well, outside help could mean another therapist, or at least someone to talk to.

It sounds like you have been plotting more than one murder?

I ask because lots of us have been so mad or injured by a family member that we have some passing thoughts about killing a person.

But more than one person is - well, more than one person.

I can't tell if this is indicative of a serious psychological problem, but you  are ( i think) very angry or very hurt by those people. Or perhaps you feel trapped by them. Any of those are good reasons to talk it over with a psychologist - because you are feeling so angry/hurt/trapped.

Answer 5

do you hate certain family memebers, or is plotting to kill them just totally random?

when i was younger i used to think about ways to kill my mom when i was really mad at her.. so you're not alone, although i'm not saying that it's healthy or normal just because i felt the same way. it was something i would never follow through on though of course, and would only think about when i was extremely angry.