Only 4 muslim sisters in uk

Question

Sisters a question 4 u. SOME muslim men in uk?

I live in uk and I have seen especially in men (note i am not saying all muslim men are like this in uk, its just from what i've seen and heard) are not passionate about their faith. They like to date, drink etc which makes it hard to find a good muslim brother to marry. sisters have you come across this too? how do u feel bout it?

Answer 1

yes sister. i agree its very sad. i live in a community with a large moroccan population and also pakistan. all the young brothers date, commit zina, drink, go out clubing, dont pray and dont go to mosque.

im also worried to as i cant find a proper muslim brother with deen. :(

i will have to look further afield i think. and its teh same in morocco. young men only want to do haram and then settle down in their 30's.

very dissapointing. oooh well.

there are some good muslim men just liek looking for a needle in a hay stack. just need to be patient and if you want a decent brother may take you a few years to find them so patients is required.

good luck. wish me luck too :D

Answer 2

Salaam sister,

To answer your question, yes its true SOME British Muslim men lack in faith and do haram things, but there are also MANY British Muslim men who are religious. It really depends who you know.  

Answer 3

well the boys i have seen are quite like that yes.... apparantly someone at my school deals illegal stuff and smokes weed. they all seem to be like that. they also shave their breads

but i have seen aload of me...and they are so religios. Actually the other day i was in birmigham and i saw a man (with beard) and had a niqabi wife. they were holding hand and it was sooooooo cute!!!!! i was like aww!

there are many like that especially inthe city, but then the are those u pierce their ears and walk about like gangtas and go clubbing....

it is a real shame i have to say... :(

i feel abit sad becuase i mean.... HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FIND ME A HUSBAND???????? lmao :)

but we know Allah is great and inshalah we will all find decent husbands soon. :)

jazakhi Allah khairan

Answer 4

You see wherever you will go you will get the good and bad and you are right it is very very difficult to find a good potential husband in the UK, but you also need to look in the right places! I have come across some great  brothers Masha'Allah who are very strong in their Faith and striving. If you wnat any help do let me know Insha'Allah!

Answer 5

There are some that are like this, and there are some that aren't. And yeah I agree with you that this makes it hard for Muslim girls to find decent guys to marry 'cos you don't know who's genuine and who isn't 'cos people are so good at hiding things trust, but it's the same thing for the guys when they're trying to find decent Muslim girls aswell these days 'cos they're pretty effed up aswell. Not all of them obviously but you know what I mean.

Answer 6

Yes I know exactly what you mean. It annoys the h**l out of me but its OK. There are still plenty of religious guys but they don't hang it in the Muslim areas. They spend all their time at mosques so you don't see much of them.

Answer 7

Wow i have lived in the uk my whole life and i have never seen what your have said and what your saying is very IGNORANTE

ALCOHOL IS ONE OF THE WORST SIN'S AND DATING THAT WILL PROBERLY LEAD TO s*x IS A BIG SIN TOO IN ISLAM SO HOW CAN SOME BE passionate about their faith IF THEY DO  BIG SIN'S HUMMMM

So sister you are Comparing the worst muslim's like they are the best there millons and millons of muslims that pratice islam propberly in the uk so open your eyes and stop going to the gutter may allah guide you and the all the people << sorry if i come of a bit rude >>> asslamualkum

Answer 8

You're hanging out in the wrong places with the wrong people.