Opinions, i really really need help?

Question

Okay, so the other morning i woke up and head my mother yelling at my sister at 4 am to give her my sisters car keys (shes 21 im 17) and of course she didnt so i knew my mom would come for me next and i pretended to be asleep but she came in and tried to ask for mine too. i could tell she was almost hysterical. She asked for mine and i asked why and she went off on all this junk that she thinks i did like ruin the famly and such (i always tend to be the punching bag when my mom and my sister are always blameless) and my sister walks away and who gets in truble? me. she walks towards me and i really dont remember but i remember her coming at me and i told her to stop but one hand got my hair and the other had my throat (i have a sctratch there now) somehow i try to get out of it and end up on the floor and i had an opening and got up grabbed my moms wrists and told her to get ahold of herself. she tried kicking me so i just walked in my room. i knew it wasnt over and like i knew it she came back. and im adopted and she started saying sh*t on my birth mom and she knows that hurts me and pisses me off. then she kept calling me a c*nt she said something really really terrible that i wont repeat and i slapped her. she went for me and tried stabbing me with a nail file that she had in her hand. i had to defend myself so i think i might have hit back i cant remember. she kept getting in my face and calling me names so i shoved her away from me and i got in her face to get her away from me she then loudly proclaimed that i was hitting a 52 year old and then my sister comes out. threatens to tru to beat me up and shes like 5"1 and 110 pounds and im 5"7 and weigh a little bit more than her. she went for me and i was trying to get her off of me but while that happned my mom joined in and started hitting my head and pulling my hair. i didnt hit my sister back i couldnt hurt her. i almost picked her up by accident, but anyways me and my sister end up, again, on the floor and my mother sits on my and starts hitting the top of my head. i got out from there and i drove away to the beach i couldnt breath and i almost fainted driving. the worst part is that she apologized but said i deserved it. she denies ever doing anything and said i was the one hitting them. i want to cry. shes proud of it and remarked "i think you need another smack down" she says its all in my head and is so convinced that it is. I need help and dont know what to do. once i turn 18 im done for. please any opinions out there? i swear this is all true and im not making it up. i have bruises on my head and i cant move my neck that well bc it hurts

thank you ahead of time<3

Answer 1

awwh

i am soo sorry fot thatt

that is a horrible situation to be in =[

you are very brave to put this on here

you should probably call child servicess.

i know it can be hard to rat your mom in like that

but its for your own sake.

just some advicee (:

Answer 2

please call kids help line 1-800-668-6868

GET OUT LEAVE GO

Answer 3

That is really horrible, PLEASE call child services and have her locked up.     :( Let s know  how it turns out plz, too.  

Answer 4

COPS!!!!!!!! you have physical evidence of your mother hitting you. you can put her away for abuse.  

Answer 5

just  tell  here  ok    i  hope  turn  better

Answer 6

i&#039;m sooo sorry :(

call child services, or maybe have yourself emancipated?

if you lived close to me i&#039;d let you stay with me you poor girl.

God Bless.

  

Answer 7

holy F. you need to go get help and you need to call the police on your mom and sis and you need to leave as soon as possible

Answer 8

leave! go any where but there.... i mean no one should have to deal with that c**p... just get out and leave. period.

Answer 9

I think you should call child protective services or at least tell someone you can trust such as a police officer. No one should be abused in this way I my heart goes out to you.

Answer 10

it counts as child abuse so you should call the cops and go see a really good councilor.

Answer 11

Normally I don&#039;t answer any questions here seriously in the least bit, but you honestly need to go to the cops and then to child services. You&#039;re a minor so they&#039;ll still help you. Stay with a friend for a while if you can. This is very serious abuse and needs to be taken seriously as such.  

Answer 12

First u should call social services and report her or call ur case worker and tell them about the abuse...B/c thats what it is...And then they can place u in another home until u turn 18

Answer 13

I feel really bad for you honey because that is abuse. Sounds like the family needs &#039;parenting clasees&#039; and your sister needs help in knowing what&#039;s right and wrong. It&#039;s clear that your family has no self worth or respect for others. I&#039;m really sorry that you are feeling the way you are, and it must hurt even worse knowing that you are adopted and probably feeling like an outcast.

I would get a job, start saving some money and when you&#039;re 18, you get the heck out of there and don&#039;t look back. Do you know who your real mom is? You can go look for her if you want. My niece got into a huge fight with her mom at 17 and she walked out and never returned. She lived with friends, continued school and got her diploma. Now she is on her own and lives in an apartment. She&#039;s 21 now.

I would recommend getting yourself an advanced education, meaning college etc., get into a career that will support you financial wise and stay as far away from them as possible. You are in a very unhealthy situation, and I would strongly suggest you going to counselling, whether it be with a school counselor, or someone outside the school to help you deal with these issues. Trust me, it will make you stronger in the long run having this help.

Take care, and I wish you luck.