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Opinions on whether this makes me a s**t.?

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I had s*x when I was fourteen.

That was the only time I ever did, and it was honestly with a guy I really loved.

People say since I was 'young' it makes me a ****...

I don't think it does whatsoever.

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no it doesn't make you a ****, if you kept of having s*x with all kinds of different guys all the time then yes it would make you a ****. The reason why people are saying this to you is because of your age and you saying it was with a guy you really loved, so if you really loved this guy tell me are you still with him. At 14 it's really kind of hard to say your in love, cuz even a person who is older can have the same problem, saying they are in love. There are guys out here in this world that say to their girlfriends or just to someone they like if you love and care about me, you would have s*x with me it would prove you really care. Don't fall for that line, if these guys really do care and love you then they wouldn't even ask you that question in the first place. Being with someone doesn't always have to have anything to do with s*x.In the future try being a little more wiser with what you do with your s*x life and with who.good luck and take care.
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i think you being young has NOTHING to do with that making you a ****. and i don't think that makes you a **** either. if you gave yourself away to many guys at 14, 18, or 47, you might be a **** then.
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No your not a **** you liked the guy adnn you had s*x thats not a ****

And its the only time u have so no your not

Dont lisen to them

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These people are not your friends. Don't worry about them, I think you are very normal and what you did was out of love not lust. You are a good person. Good luck*
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no

i don't think ur a ****
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i don't think it does

i lost mine when i was 14 too
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no its does not becasuse i was 11 and i still laugh and so does eveyone else so dont worry about and dont pay attion to what people say
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no i don't think so I'm not speaking from experience doe im only (12)
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why do you judge yourself so hard if your a nice person then your a nice person relax and laugh it off
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I don't think you are a ****.

However, I think you must like attention. Based upon the nature of your question, it is clear personal reassurance is very important to you.
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It makes you young, naive, curious, un-prepared, misguided.
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No it does not make you a ****,just because you had s*x at a young age.At the time you needed someone too hold you and make everything better,who gives a cramp what others think,there just jealous. And remember life goes on any how.
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14 is pretty young...it doesnt make you a **** if you loved him...just someone who needs more boundaries from your parents
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No! That does NOT make you a ****. A **** is someone who lets men use her for their own satisfaction and who doesn't have any respect for herself. You sound like someone who has self-respect and who followed her heart.
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Nope not a **** just a w***e hahaha jk i don't no
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If you had s*x only once in your life, if it's already in the past and won't happen again, that does not turn you into a ****. But from now on, please try to take love and s*x as a very serious life subject. Ok?

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you having s*x at 14 doesn't make you a **** .. your mind is young people make mistakes sometimes you just have to learn from them .

just make this a learning experience
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No, it doesn't make you one, since it was the only time and you really did believe that you were in love. It was just a bad decision that you made.

Good luck making better decisions in the future.
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Don't listen to them. It was only once, and you were in love.

It shouldn't matter what other people think.

Your not a slu*
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no defiantly not.

i believe it makes you a ****.
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Certainly not one of them!! Young and impressionable. Made a mistake, don't beat yourself up over it and move on. You obviously have a concience which proves you are not!! If you did not care then that would be different. Be careful next time and make a wiser choice.Good luck
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