o****m Or Not??? =S?

Question

Ohk Well Every Time I m********e I Get To This Point Where It Feels So Great For Like 7 Seconds (Or Less) And I Go Harder But Then I Suddenly Cannnot Do It Any Longer Because It Tingles Too Much... Like I Can't Handle Anymore!

Is This An o****m?? I Don't "Squirt" Or Anything Though!

Please Help!? =S

Answer 1

the way you describe it, im not sure, Where It Feels So Great For Like 7 Seconds, sounds yes, but the "But Then I Suddenly Cannnot Do It Any Longer Because It Tingles Too Much... Like I Can't Handle Anymore! "

sounds a definite NO, that happens to me and its not an o****m, i dont know what it is, my bf thinks im nuts when i tell him to get off cuz i cant handle it any more, but oh well. when you o****m, its more of a "pulsing muscle contraction" that feels really good then when it stops you are all content like it doesnt matter if the sky fell in tomorrow.

Answer 2

probally an o****m.

not everyone "squirts"

everyone is different

Answer 3

yes this is definetly an o****m =]

Answer 4

Yes it's a little o****m  but you must have to a big o****m when continue don't stop  

Answer 5

That would be an o****m! After we o****m the area tends to get a little sensitive to touch! And not everyone "squirts" when they o****m!  

Answer 6

Possibly. Orgasms, for me, are like the world tightening closer and closer until there is the feeling of falling off the world. My v****a is rhythmically contracting for several seconds during that phase and then everything levels off feeling relaxed and content. Woman can often o****m again, but it usually takes a few minutes to begin again as everything is so sensitive.

If there are no contractions in the v****a, then possibly you aren't reaching o****m. Some woman describe nearing o****m as like having to pee, or that they can't take anymore. Push through that feeling and find out if that is what is happening for you.

Few woman "squirt" during o****m. Most just become very wet.

Answer 7

Yes it is o****m. Tingling sensation gives you more joy which you should continue. Every woman does not squirt but gets profusely wet.

Answer 8

Sounds like it could be o****m, or it might be just *before* o****m and the feeling is just too intense for you (you can slow down a minute and get back to stronger stimulation after a bit of a rest if this is the case).

It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach o****m... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine.

Just before o****m, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your o****m first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your v****a and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your v****a, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift... or perhaps even like doing it again.

One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_ho...

Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom). Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you... it's fun. Sooner or later, you'll have an o****m, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

Then you'll know what having one is like, for sure.

Have fun and don't worry. Masturbation is having s*x with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having s*x with the one you *want*, you'll be able to tell them (or to show them if you like) the things you like best.

EDIT:

This last paragraph says it all about why you're the only one who can make it feel that way.  Only you know what makes you feel the best, and you have to teach your lover or he'll never know how.