Orgasming during s*x...cant... why?

Question

so ive been with my bf for 3 years and having s*x..

but i cant seem to be able to have an o****m

its not like it doesnt feel good... its amazing but it seems like its impossible

anyone know why?

and how i might be able to have one?

Answer 1

Quite often the first o****m takes place during self-exploration. Play around with some self-stimulation techniques until you get it then teach your partner what to do.

Answer 2

Women are complicated creatures and most of us need more than penetration to o****m. You need clitoral stimulation, if you want to just o****m, oral s*x and vibration is fine, but if you want to o****m during actual penetration you need to be comfortable with your partner and yourself, enough to m********e or use a vibrator. Most men don't keep the rhythm of clitoral stimulation constant enough to o****m during s*x so I say do it yourself, its a turn on for him, and you know your body the best.  

Answer 3

I can't o****m from doing it missionary position, but I find lying on my stomach makes me o****m really fast. That's probably because he's hitting the g-spot.  

Answer 4

try relaxing what ever is going on in your head during s*x

a woman's o****m has a lot to do with whats going on in her mind at the time

Answer 5

laying on your stomache helps alot and have him go allllll the way

Answer 6

Only ten percent of women can o****m from s*x alone, so try more stimulation. Vibrations and other types of stimulation can help. Be explorative.

Answer 7

Without trying to be vulgar:

Because women don't really have an o****m from plain ol' s*x.  That doesn't provide the clitoral stimulation you need to get off.  Personally, as a guy, I have **no idea** if women are able to o****m or not from s*x alone.  And I don't really think anyone does.  All I know is what I've heard from the various ladies in my life, stimulate that clitoris.  Chances are, it's not your fault OR his fault.  It's just the way our bodies are built.

Have you EVER had an o****m?  Can you do it by yourself?  If not, get on that immediately, because that'll give you your answer.

And, hey, if he REALLY wants to get you off, tell him to get down there and do it with his tongue like a real man!