Other adoptees, I need help badly.?

Question

CPS has now placed my children for adoption. They are to be finalised in 2 weeks time, and I need to know how to stop the adoptions from happening.

I can't just stop them because CPS stole my kids from me and I didn't concent to it, what can I do to stop those baby stealing ******* from taking my babies?

Answer 1

Paula, sweetie, your children were taken from your home becuase they were experincing neglect or abuse. Think about it. In any ways have you abused your children or ignore them?

Talk with CPS to see what the specifics are. After they explain to you, ask to see your children one last time (with a CPS representive present) so you can say good-bye. You could fight for them in court, but face it if they're being taken away it's for their own good. I'm sorry. I know you probally thought you did nothing wrong, but maybe at one point you have. Again, I am terribly sorry for what is happening. Don't worry there will be a time again someday when you may see your babies. God bless.

Answer 2

Hi Paula, if you're children were taken from you do to proven abuse or neglect then the only way you have a hope of getting them back is to work with CPS. Do everything they ask of you, go to every appointment they require of you, be co-operative and respectful even if you don't want to, and most of all, if you are having a drug or alcohol related problem, then PLEASE get yourself some help.

If there truly was no proof of neglect or abuse you might be able to fight the decision with an attorny. So get one as soon as you can.

However, even if you feel their decision was wrong, you may find that the only way to get your children back is to work through them.

If you are not abusive or neglectful, then all they want is to see that demonstrated by you, and you need to remain calm when interacting with them to show them that you are a responsable loving parent.

If you fight directly with them, it will only make it harder to get your children back.

I am really sorry if they took them from you for invalid reasons, which does happen at times. But also remember there might have been things that caused them concern, so show them that those concerns are unfounded by working with them.

I've worked in social services and if you are responsable, respectful, and follow through with EVERY CPS requirement, then you will most likily get your children back.

Remember their intentions is just to make sure the children are safe. Do you have an abusive spouse or boyfriend? If so leave him immediately. You will never get your children back if you don't, AND further more you shouldn't be exposing the children to an abusive person to begin with.

If there are drugs involved or an abusive partner, this very well might be an opportunity for you to get the incentive you need to be the parent your children really need.

Good luck!

Ah, I missed you were two weeks from finalization. Again, if there truly were no valid reasons for CPS's actions then you need to get an attorney immediately, although it may be hard to afford one.

Again, if parents aren't working with them, they their goal is to get children into a permanent home. If your children have been bouncing around foster care, then this is probably a better solution for them, although the very best thing would have been for you to show you are a good parent and be able to parent them.

I am very sorry it happened this way.

You can try talking to the women at:

http://originsusa.org

E-mail anyone there and they will offer the best knowledge they have of how to deal with these situations. I highly recommend it. Also, are there any requirements that you could comply with that you haven't been requiring with? That might help your cause, although you now only have two weeks.

Again, good luck.

Answer 3

If you didn't consent to it, go to the police, and or any person who might listen to you. Seeing as those Baby stealing *******....lol...i like that....Sue their ***.

Answer 4

Children aren’t typical taken from the home with no do cause. You should be given a period of time to try and better yourself. The fact that they are placing the children in two weeks just says to me that you have had your chance to better yourself and you failed.  If this is the case then there is no one to blame but yourself.

Answer 5

Paula, sit back and be truthful with yourself.

Why were the children taken out of your home?

I am terribly sorry about your situation.  You need an attorney.  Look in the government section of your phone book and look for Legal Aid or just call a local firm and ask them for the number or if they know attorneys that take pro-bono cases.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

CPS will NOT place kids up for adoption so quickly. You must have not complied with their rules to become a better parent. If this is the case, then I'm not sure if anyone can help you.

Answer 7

are you sure they were from CPS? cause some people pose as being them to kidnap children. in that case you would need to call NCMEC