Other alternatives aside from jerking off or engaging into s*x?

Question

i have a very high libido and i don't know what to do about it. it's like i'm being attacked by the feeling to have s*x at any place at any time. thoughts just keep popping on my mind of wanting s*x or jerking off. of course, i have to consider being a morally upright individual, educated and definitely human. Is there any way to decrease my libido?

Answer 1

well ,   what kind of music , movies , jokes , do you like most , Is there alot of sexual things in the subjects of those things ?  I am not saying s*x is wrong at all . because By Jolly its not . But I do understand where you are coming from .  Maybe  you could try keeping your MP3 player with you at all times , and while shopping , walking from one place to another , driving , or anything really just listen to a few of  songs that are not to sexual ( i know thats hard in this day and age )  But maybe its just that the sexual part of your brain is stimulated easily and your become a wee bit horny without even wanting to .  maybe that will help  , so that you wont need to walk out of Kroger anymore holding a loaf of bread infront of your pants ... LOL ................ Good Luck  

Answer 2

go for a run, then throw a bucket of iced water over your head!

Answer 3

Uhmm.. lol. i dont know maby theres a pill xD try asking a doctor.

Cheers!

Answer 4

If you have a very high libido, it is normal to want to relieve yourself.  Train yourself to m********e when you have a shower at the start of the day.  Make it part of your daily routine.  Relieving your sexual tension then at the start of your day will set you up to be able to think about it less during the day.

During the day, force yourself to think about other things you are interested in, your work, your studies, sports that you are good at.

When you get into a relationship in future that includes s*x, then you can drop the shower routine and save yourself for your lady at night.  

As you get older, your body should settle down and your libido will lessen somewhat.

Just realize that, as a male, it is normal to have a high level of sexual urges (particularly when you are young) since this is mother nature's way of ensuring the survival of the species.

If you already have a partner, realize the masturbating is NOT cheating on your partner.  It is just controlling your own body to be able to do other things than constantly thinking about s*x.

Answer 5

There is nothing morally wrong with masturbation.     Some religions try to state that it is, but I refuse to even consider the possibility.

Religions too many times use sexual feelings to make people feel guilty, this insuring the religion's power over them.

Thinking about s*x is normal, also.    

Answer 6

You cannot help having a high libido.

And there is no way to decrease ir either:only in the long run it will get less.

Can't you divert your thoughts about s*x to other things?

Play sports,join a gym,read books etc etc.

And the longer you do not have s*x your drive slowly decreases.

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