Our cat had to go to the vet, fiance had drinking buds over and was supposed to see chiropractor. Ok he's mad?

Question

Our cat was bitten by some animal and has a fever 105.6. I made an appointment with the vet. During all this mu fiance's drinking buds were over and he had a chiropractor appointment tonight that he had to cancel because I asked him to help me take the cat to the vet. He really wanted to go see the chiropractor and eat pork chops on the bar-b-q with his friends. I wanted him to help me take the cat to the vet. He wanted me to go to the vet without him and was complaining the whole time about how he didn't get to go see the chiropractor and mad that he had to wait in the waiting room. Anyhow, the vet said the cat's fever was high and needed introvenous anitbiotics and fluids. Even after that, he was still complaining he didn't go to the chiropractor because his shoulder was bothering him and he missed his buds. I sort of forced him to go with me to take the cat to the vet. The whole time I was worried about the cat while all he was doing was complaning about what he didn't get to do. He also was trying to hush me when I voiced my concerns to the vet about the high fever. Should I have taken the cat myself to the vet and let him hang out with his buds and go to the chiropractor, or was I right in expecting him to go with me to take the cat to the vet? I am more upset over his lack of concern for our pet cat. What do you think of all this?

Answer 1

I think he's an insensitive douchebag! Chiropractor appointments can be rescheduled, and surely he can hang out with his friends anytime. Of course you were right in thinking that he should cancel his plans and help you - your pet's life was in danger! What an a*****e!

There's nothing you can do about it now, it's over and done with. But I would take a serious look at your relationship. Are you sure you want to marry this guy? Has he acted like this before? It could definitely happen again. He needs to grow up and stop being such a whiner!

Hope your kitty feels better!

Answer 2

i think he shud have gone to the vet with you but maybe u cud have asked him if he minded some ppl are just not into animals and wud rather hang out with the buddys

Answer 3

Relay this to your fiance.  Here's to you, the Bud man, that gave up drinking some brew with your buddies. Made the decision to take the d**n cat to the vet. Was it the right decision? We will never know. But, you made the sacrifice and all of us are proud. So keep up the good work and always remember this day and the sacrifices you made. We will always be thinking of you. The Bud-man that saved the cat. It makes me proud to be a beer drinker. This Bud is for you!  

Answer 4

you should have taken the cat he should have kept his drs. appt. if your both smart you wont marry your not compatible

Answer 5

he sounds like a self centered jerk.  he will either get over it or you can dump him for being a jerk!

Answer 6

you did the right(girlfriend) thing, he shoulda gone willingly, but , thats part of the lovers life,  

Answer 7

Well, the chiropractor excuse doesn't hold water.  His shoulder isn't that bad or he wouldn't be wanting to party with his friends.  He's more upset about missing the BBQ and his buds.  I think it says something about a man's character when he wants to put his own fun above that of a sick person or animal as well as not being there to support you emotionally during this time.  Where's the compassion?  He sounds self-centered and a bit immature.  Keep an eye on this behavior.  It might be a warning sign for you.

Answer 8

Don't ever have kdis with this man unless you want to raise them yourself while he is with his buds.

He puts himself before anyone, and it is not right. I would think about breaking it off for his lack of consideration, it's only a foresight of a sick kid.