My husband and I have been married for two years and he was deployed for fifteen months of it to Iraq. Since he's got back five months ago everything is different. I expected things to change...how could they not? He's recently developed a temper (throwing stuff at the wall and I've been kicked once), he comes home and doesn't want anything to do with me or our thirteen month old daughter, he's glued to the computer for hours upon hours every day, and our s*x is seriously lacking. I know something's going on with him...whether its something that happened in Iraq and/or the stress from work recently...I'm just not sure what. Its gotten to the point I talked to his mom and had her talk to him because he won't talk to me...if I try, he's gets mad and storms off. I love him and I want our marriage to be okay again, but he's unwilling to admit there's a problem, let alone try to fix it. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to be unhappy for the rest of my life, and I don't want our daughter to have to deal with all of this too. Any suggestions?
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