Our s*x life has gone down the drain?

Question

My boyfriend and i have been together about 2 years, in the beginning we had s*x everyday, but for the past 6 months or so we have been intimate very very rarely.

He still always wants s*x but i'm just never in the mood. I love him with all my heart and i can't understand why i don't get in the mood.

HELP!!!!!!!????????

Oh we've lived together most of our relationship.

I am 20 he is 24

Answer 1

What was it that brought you two together? What gets you "excited and in the mood"? Ask your boyfriend to be more spontaneous instead of just having casual s*x.

Maybe you're just growing up and want something more than just s*x...

Answer 2

this is common.  you should expect a slowdown (you're not 17 anymore!) as you get older and as you have been together longer.  other factors that are likely to hinder your drive are things like diet (greasy foods that hurt your stomach won't make you feel very sexual), depression, negative self image, and stress.  stop pressuring yourself and think about how it used to be.  turn off the tv, go on a nice date, turn off the cellphone, and have a quiet night in.

Answer 3

s*x does die down after a while.If you do love him so much you need to try and experience new things to get that spice back in you relationship.You need to be relaxed and comfortable too.Surprise him once in a while he will love it!

Answer 4

It appears that the "honeymoon phase" of your relationship is over. Your relationship has entered a different stage of love. I provided a link for you. Check it out, it might help you understand your situation a little better. You are still young, take time out to find yourself. There is nothing wrong with that.

http://dataguru.org/love/fehrtyp.asp