Our son 18 had s*x with and is now having a baby with a 14 year old girl. it was consenual.?

Question

The baby is due the last week in August and he received notice of an arraignment Sept. 8th. Social services became involved, this is not her first sexual encounter. we all live in Michigan

Answer 1

It doesn't matter if the girl threw herself naked at your son and begged him. And it doesn't matter how many other sexual encounters the girl has had. A 14-year-old cannot legally consent to s*x in Michigan, so no it was not "consensual".  

You need to hire a lawyer.

Answer 2

now a days a 14 is the new 17

i really don't see a big problem...

if she didn't have s*x with an 18 year old then it woulda been another 14 year old..

s*x is s*x no matter the age...

and at least with the 18 year old he can help support the baby...

but your son shoulda known better...

cuz she is jail bait...

Answer 3

I think in Michigan this is illegal.18 and 14.She's old enough to be starting High School and he's old enough to start college.Wow

Answer 4

The s*x cannot possibly be concentual because she was under aged at the time, and unable to make the decision.  Your son could be charged with statutory rape, because she was underage.

It doesn't matter if this was her first sexual encounter, you have proof of this one.

Is this your question?

Answer 5

Ok...... What's your question?

Answer 6

Check with the laws in your state but your son could be charged with statutory rape no matter if the s*x was consentual or not. Most states the legal consentual age is 16.

Answer 7

well your son might be in some big trouble and labeled as a s*x offender the rest his life not here criticize you or your son but he should have been more careful and not played with children as a result of this you may never have a relationship with your grandchild im sorry to point that out.  

Answer 8

well basically your son can go to jail it is still rape even if she agreed.  In the court of law they don't care if she was dating him or said yes it is considered date rape.  And you don't even sound mad at him or disappointed.  I would be pissed if i was you.  She is 4 years younger than him what is he doing dating a girl that young.  He is an adult and now she is pregnant.  Social services needed to get involved if you think that he shouldn't be charged with rape then i don't know what is going through your head.  Sure he is your son but really it is his fault that she is pregnant if he is old enough to have s*x then he can face jail time for knowing it was illegal to have s*x with a minor.  And if he didn't know it was your job to tell him.

Answer 9

Well, he's going to jail f because she was a minor. You that Casey Aldridge almost went to jail for getting Jamie Lynn spears knocked up so I mean. I hope you pay for bail.

Answer 10

Don't see what the question is, but yes having s*x with a 14 year old is against the law so your son should be in trouble.

Answer 11

it does not matter how many sexual encounters she's had before . your son at 18 is an adult she is a child. It is statutory rape ..

um baby due "last week in august" which is NOW

and he got notice sept 8th?? which is over 2 weeks away.....

hmmmmmmmmm

unless he got notice LAST sept but still had s*x after the notice......

either way i think you are FULL OF IT (put an SH infront of IT)

Answer 12

s*x with a minor is never considered consensual s*x. Social Services became involved for several reasons. She probably applied for Medicaid to pay for her medical care and that of her unborn child. She may have applied for Public Assistance as she's going to need money to support this child. Along with applying for PA, she probably applied for Food Stamps, again, to help with raising this baby. If she applied for any of these programs she would have had to name the father of the unborn child. Once she did that, they will take the named father to court, order a paternity test which he will have to pay for for him and the baby, then they'll set an amount for Child Support which he will have to pay either weekly, bi-weekly or monthly. It can be ordered to be taken out of his paycheck if they feel he won't pay it on his own.

Your best bet is to hire an Attorney. Once Social Services shells out monies for anyone, they do everything they are entitled to in order to get those monies paid back. They can file a judgment against your son with the County Clerk...that stays there for however long it takes him to pay them back. And he will have to pay if he is the father. He will have to pay back Birth Related Medical Expenses for the mother and child. He will have to pay back all monies that she receives for anything through Social Services.

I'm sorry you have to go through this but this is where teens or young adults need to pay attention to their parents when we tell them NOT to have s*x at such a young age. You also have to look at the real fact that he may be going to jail for a statutory rape charge.

Answer 13

I'm sorry to hear that.

But your son should know better than to sleep with a 14 year old.

And you should know if hes having s*x... because i doubt you didn't know. Considering shes pregnant.

I'd be happy to answer your question if you cleared it up a bit, you just gave facts and i am a little confused.

Or maybe you are just looking for a lecture!

Oh and i bet you are a 10 year old troll because that is not legal, and that is considered rape even if the girl agreed, so your "son" broke the law.

Answer 14

Be happy you son wasn't given rape charges.

Answer 15

September 8th is my birthday lol. But whats the question?

Answer 16

It doesn't matter weather she was a virgin or a s**t. The fact is your son had s*x with her when she was a minor and he wasn't. Also, she wasn't even old enough to consent. The age of consent is 16. Sorry but your son should have thought about this before hand. It isn't even up to the girls parents the state itself will pick up the charges because there is more than a 4 year gap between their ages.  

Answer 17

Your son can be called a peadophile. She is not 16, she is 14. He could be in trouble.