Over 30s!! Have you ever heard of a cheating man who really and truly LOVED her but just wanted some ....?

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I've read that they can do this. Love their partner but cheat on her then come home like nothing is wrong and think nothing of it. The extra s*x is just that, s*x only. Many women are totally unaware of it. Does this make it less wrong I wonder?

Answer 1

It is not just men..woman do it too.

Yes, it is just s*x and is not emotional. It is possible.

But I wouldn't lie about it. Maybe you just need someone in your life who is willing to live with an open relationship.

Answer 2

Would it be ok if she did it too?  

The thing is, if you are married you vowed to be together and to love only one another.  This includes the physical aspect of it.  You are to love one another and part of this love is to show respect to your partner by not running off and having s*x with everyone else.  Its the ultimate slap in the face to a woman if her man does this.  Its not true love to run around on her.  Sorry, but its not.   He may not think there is anything wrong with it, but a woman sees it quite differently and will shove his butt out of the house for doing it.

Answer 3

My husband has never cheated - that I know of - but we have talked about people we know who have. He says that men can separate s*x & love, that a man can really love his wife & still have s*x with someone else. He would have a bigger problem with someone who had an emotional affair, with or without s*x. I disagreed saying it's still disrespectful to the wife & very painful to her when a man breaks his vows like that. I've heard this disagreement with so many men & women. I truly don't understand how men see it this way, but apparently they do. But I still told my husband - s*x with anyone else would be a dealbreaker, with or without emotions. THAT he understood!

Answer 4

honey that's the age old problem of the husband never leaving his wife. he goes out for s*x only, and the mistress is standing by hoping he'll come to her. for him he is just fulfilling an urge that his wife cant or wont. the sick thing is sometimes the wife is aware of what is going on and looks the other way.

Answer 5

no I've never heard of it, and I don't expect to hear of that any time in the future either.

If you really love someone, you don't cheat on them.

Age 38