OK, my husband of three years has always acted normal and been loving. We just had our first baby in march and now we have another one on the way due April 3, 2009. Since he found out I am pregnant, he has been running out all over the place. He wakes up, trip to BR, then cigarrette, then he leaves and I don't see him again until 2 or 3 in the morning. Then the next day it all starts over. A few times he has come home and went straight to the shower. Other nights he comes home smelling of different colognes when he knows I am allergic to virtually ALL perfumes and colognes. I swear I think he is cheating on me. I hate to think that but I do. I sit at home and cry and cry and cry. I feel like I can't do this anymore. He never offers any help. He says he'll do one thing then the next day he says he never said that. He has started going outside to talk on the phone and gets mad when I open the door. When I confront him with my thoughts he says I am acting stupid and being a ******. And if I am not happy with him anymore I should just leave. Why would he say that? Then he turns around and says if he wanted someone else he would be there and not here. Well, he's hardly ever here. And when he is here, he is disinterested. He doesn't even act like he is attracted to me. last time I was pregnant, he couldn't keep his hands off of me.Now, even if I want s*x, he doesn't act like it is something he wants. I don't know what to do. Am I just paranoid and over emotional??What would you think is going on if you were in this situation?? He NEVER used to act like that. This has only begun in the last week or two.
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