Ovulation monday-any advice.hows every1?

Question

its my ovulation date monday and i was wondering if theres anything i can do to maybe, help the process??i have been doing weight watchers and have gone from 11st 8 to 10st 10 which i hope is helping.

i know this may sound a bit odd but been trying for 8 months now and getting a little desparate.

i dont know about all the other women out there but i feel deflated, cant wait to be able to use the pregnancy forum, keep imagining what colours i can do the babies room (we're renovating a house), i feel like im going mad.

is any1 else feeling the same? jus totally all over the place???

Answer 1

I haven't been trying quite as long as you, this will be our 5th month and I am anxiously awaiting my ovulation next week. I do know what you mean though. You seem to feel a little more desperate each time you get that BFN. I too can't wait to use the pregnancy forum and day dream about the day we will have our own little one. I can't help but check out the baby section of different stores and dream of when it will be my turn. I don't know what all you have tried so I do not know how much of this will be repeating but I will try. First off, are you sure you are ovulating when you think you are and are you sure that you are actually ovulating? Some women are not aware that ovulation does not occur on day 14 for everyone. If you are not sure you can try ovulation tests. Get the Digital ones if you need to use them. If you are sure of when you are ovulating just make sure that you have s*x every day during your fertile time which is a few days before you ovulate up until just after ovulation. This gives sperm the best shot as they can live longer than the egg can. Also after you have s*x remain lying there for about 20 minutes or so with your hips raised to help the sperm reach their destination. Other than that I can only wish you luck and pray that you get your BFP. Baby Dust to you and all ttc.

Answer 2

Hey Lola, I have been TTC for 9 months, so I know how you feel. Well done re:weight watchers, that's fab news.

Why don't you go for a massage on Monday and come home all relaxed and get some lovely candles and make it a lovely calm evening.

My friend fell after a massage after having PCOS for 7 years...she swears it helped chill her out and helped her fall pregnant.

All the best this month x*x