PLEASE ANSWER!!!!!!?

Question

Does anyone else on hear know about having an affair? And if so, how do you keep from getting caught? Which we've been hiding it for over 7 months now, but I feel as if it is getting harder and harder to keep it hid...

Answer 1

That's despicable.

Answer 2

haha I love this question!!! I love how ppl can be so shameless!

My God!

Answer 3

DNT DO IT!! how wud u lyk it if da other person in dis relationship did that 2 u?? fink how dat wud make u feel den STOP wat u r doin now while u still can!!

Answer 4

In your first question you said that you didn't want to leave your husband, but that you just wanted to have something on the side. Normally I can cut a married person a little slack for having an affair due the many variables involved, and it's up to the two partners to figure out what went wrong and fix it. However, I have zero tolerance for any person that interjects him/herself into someone else's marriage by having an affair with one of the spouses. People like that are the lowest form of scum on the planet and deserve neither sympathy nor respect. Even though you are the spouse here, you fit this category. You are but a dirty w***e and you have no business being married in the first place. When your husband finds out (and he will, they always do) I hope you and your fellow cheater enjoy all the pain and misery you bring on yourselves. You've earned it.

Answer 5

I just don't understand why anyone would want to have an affair..

If you would put have as much energy into your husband/wife as you do into the person that you are having an affair with, then you would have an awesome marriage!!

Don't do it, in the end you are the only one who looks like an ***!

Answer 6

You want advice about how to keep an affair secret?!?  First off - DON'T CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE!  Second- honesty is always best. Come clean and admit it. If you are cheating, are you really serious about being in the relationship?!?

Answer 7

Awww...poor little evil creature!

Answer 8

You can't have any behavioral pattern changes.  

Get a pay-as-you-go cell phone.

If your affair is really emotional, i.e., you have two candles lit at once, then it gets tougher.  If it's just about s*x, then be ready to jettison the affair at the slightest hint of discovery.

Answer 9

Oh no, no tips on how to cheat on your spouse coming out of my mouth. I want you to get caught!

Answer 10

Doesn't that sound like a relaxed life. Enjoy the company of two people, but scared of getting caught! Now why would you want that in your life. Why all the pressure, all the secret texts and phone calls? All those lies! Its a wasted life you are having, i think at least!

At this stage after 7 months, I guess its better to forget both relationships. Being deceitful for that long surely makes the victim out of the picture. Regarding the other person you are playing around with, i can only assume what faith you have in eachother!

Answer 11

thanks for the two points, hope you get caught and your wife takes you for everything she can.

Answer 12

Just like that pesky little fly that always gets away.....you WILL get caught eventually. If not with this affair mos def with another one. If you already feel that it is getting harder to keep it hidden and you still insist on doing it, you must be getting some kind of "rush" out of it. It's not nice. It's not fair. It's dangerous.  

Answer 13

This is a easy question: Tell your wife you don't won't her anymore, let her know that you are really a a$$hole and you are not worth it. Then you don't have to worry about being caught. If you have been doing this for the last 7 months you are not some cool person that just did not get caught. You are someone who forgot what marriage is really about. If you want to have affairs, how about this. Get a divorce and you and s***w anyone you want. I have been marriage for the last 20 years and yes it was not always good. But that is what marriage is. Sometimes people will tell you that the grass is "greener", But here is a great idea...... Try watering your "own" grass. Every time someone said the grass is greener, they are not taking care of their own grass. When is the last time you took your wife out? When is the last time you sent her a card or candy for "no reason". Trust me the grass is not greener. when you have a girl on the side it is fun at first, you and her only need to meet for s*x... Hey that is fun... But how would it be if you and her had to deal with each other all the time, pay bills, raise kids, deal with all the problem of life. People get the person on the side so they don't have to"play house" anymore. BUT GET A CLUE... That is what marriage is all about. So drop the girl on the side and grow up and be a husband...

p..s Here is a little thought, you might want to sit down and talk to you wife about what was going on with the lady on the side, If you don't tell her... Trust me, someone will, or she will find out, or you other woman just might tell her if you leave her. In the end if she hear it from you, she will only be hurt, if she hear it from someone else, she will be p**s.

Good luck... you are going to need it

Answer 14

I'll tell you, s*x is the greatest in a prohibited relationship. the reason is it is STOLEN!! s*x.  But don't let that fool you!.  If you don't love your partner anymore be sincere with her and with ur self.  In the end you will realize the way u are doing things is wrong and unhealthy for the 3 of you.  An affair is never worth the aftermath events.

Answer 15

You suck!

Answer 16

I guess you'd just have to be very good at fooling people.  If you're gone the same time of the night for many nights in a row, there will be suspicion.  So you'd have to be with this other person as few times as possible...but then how do you have s*x???  Too difficult.  I don't do it.