PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINION!!!?

Question

Okay here's the deal.

My uncle and aunt came to stay with us a little while ago. At first i liked my uncle and i though he was a laugh. but then he started getting on my nerves. he would smoke in the car even though my dad told him not to and he get drunk so much. then he would always make us stop on the side of the road so that he can pee. he was so embarrassing!! Not to mention his wife. she was so fake. she was like "oh i don't eat sweets" and when we went into town she would always make me buy her candy. she owes me like 20$ and she stole my sister's friend's eyeliner. When they left i was so relieved. Then as time went buy we realized we were missing things. towels, bedding's shoes, cloths. We then realized that our own family members stole from us! we asked them about it but they denied it. my dad went there to where they live and he saw some of our stuff. While there were at here at our house i was really rude to them, and a little bit after they left i started to feel bad about it. ( before we found out they were crooks) Am i wrong to not feel bad about being rude to them? Does anyone have family members like that? So what do you think?

Answer 1

they're wrong, you're right

you're can be nice, but don't let people walk over you

Answer 2

I dont have any family memebers like that... but you are totally right to be pisted at them for stealing your things... they are your family. They shouldnt do that

Answer 3

No you're definitely not wrong about feeling the way you do. The natural response to someone being rude is frustration and it doesn't matter if it's family or not. I have many family members who are very rude and all you can do if you don't want confrontation is to hope that they realize that their family gets frustrated when they do rude things like being inconsiderate and stealing.  

Answer 4

They stole from you, you were right in being rude to them and hating them.  Duhhh

Answer 5

lol I think they actin like hobos if they couldnt just ask you for something if they needed support but stealing from family members is low no matter how u put it i say block them out. And feling bad yea that ur own family stole form u.

Answer 6

don't feel bad because you got taken advantage of and they stole from you not the other way around so they need to give you back your stuff and apologize

Answer 7

i think they were not disciplined well

they could get in jail