PLEASE HELP. Is My Brother a user of COCAINE!

Question

.... my brother is twenty. always been a little on the rebellious side. always partying and what not.. smoking pot.... but that didnt bother me. until. his phone was ringing one day. and i saw it was a text from his friend saying "i got the best white" and i read another text in his inbox saying "i got the white from brian... i got a g of it" which im assuming gram. so is he talking about coke... I really hope not. But i asked him casually one day... about it.. i didnt tell him i saw his texts tho.... and and he said no blah blah blah. and avoided it. he is like never tired. tho.. and isnt that a sign.. i just hope white means something else not cocain.... what do you think. please help.

Answer 1

First, it is very admirable that you have such a great concern for your brother.  You should give yourself a pat on the back for trying to help him during his crisis.

That being said, one of the things that you will eventually learn about people who use drugs is that they will not stop using until they realize for themselves the ill-effects associated with taking the drugs and that they truly want to change their lives.

Most young people cannot see beyond the near future, which blinds their inabilities to see themselves in 10, 20, or 30 years down the road.  With the consumption of drugs, such as cocaine, the drug clouds that developing judgement even further, making it nearly impossible for young people to quit on their own.  

Drugs are an escape from everything real, the truth of life.  So, what would make such a person so unhappy that he would want to escape from the present day?  Such an answer might be helpful in ultimately seeking a solution to such a problem.  However, no one person can solve everyone else's problems, and this becomes apparent with one growing old.

Answer 2

I don't know why they would text that because police have ways of tapping into cell phones. Another meaning could mean that he is really g*y and that might be slang for you know what lol

Answer 3

Probally uses cocaine.  Tell him u love him and to stop or he will die

Answer 4

YES, THAT MAKES HIM AWESOME

Answer 5

White = Cocaine.

Answer 6

first he has to come to term that he is an addict, he most likly is in denial. this is not a hopelss situation you care about him and that what addicts need most to recover.Cocaine is a dangerous drug. Get a support group togeather and let him know how much you love and care about him and convince hin to seek help (recovery center out paient narcotics anymonys etc ) addiction is a disease like any other so it will be difficult to over come he may not like the "interventerion" but he may save his life i wish you the best

Answer 7

Sadly, it sounds like your suspicions are correct.  

Common or slang names of cocaine are coke, rock, blow, snow Paradise white, and snow cones.

Hope this helps.  Take care.

Answer 8

Your brother is definately on the powder.

Other signs:

He goes to the bathroom alot

he rubs his nose alot

he sniffles more then usual

his jaw twitches

His atitude twords people is different

If he is on it

hes going to start to get nose bleeds

his nose cartilage is going to start to deteriate

its going to burn when he pees

My best answer would to tell your parents and get this kid admitted to a rehab and quick before he ends up like amy winehouse or lindsay lohan

Answer 9

Yes it sounds like brother has a drug problem. As a counselor I have heard both coke and heroin referred to as white. Especially recently in the Midwest there has been a lot of China White Heroin being sold. Either drug is bad news. I think you need to tell him that if he doesn't get help youre going to tell your parents. I know that doesn't sound cool to drop a dime on your brother, but it's less cool seeing him die. You know he can get over being angry-it's not possible to get over being dead.

I have been clean for 27 years and if someone had not snitched on me I would be dead now. Instead I have been a substance abuse/co-occurring counselor now for 20 years. Good Luck. Depending on the area you live in I might be able to get you numbers for state funded treatment centers.  

Answer 10

Sounds like it to me . .. try to talk to him . i dont know your ages or how close you are but let him know you luv him and he needs help .. i have many friends dead from coke.. it is a serious thing .. nothing to play with .  

Answer 11

Get him to an NA meeting.

Answer 12

start working on intervention.  good luck..I have had similar family problems and they suck.

woof woof

Answer 13

cocaine's a helluva drug