PLEASE HELP ME FOR EXPERIENCED ADULT DATERS?

Question

I met this handsome FEDEX delivery man, at my retail job, I know he is physically attracted to me, however I recently quit my job, and coincidentally I noticed him at this restaurant across the street where I had know idea he delivered, which is down the street from my house. I don't know if I should approach him at my former job, because I obviously know what time he delivers there or surprise him in my town of residence. I have know idea how to ask him, because I know he is on a time-line for his deliveries. should I leave a note , he will remember me, so that wont be an issue. What should I say to him? Do you remember me (HE KNOWS MY NAME, but I never asked his name), I think your hot.......

This is my first time on the dating scene in 9years, so I am very scared, to know if he is married. He would always look very HARD at me, when I was on my lunch break and I would say hi, and he would would respond likewise, but it doesn't matter married men will look at a hot girl. HOWEVER THE LOOKS WE EXCHANGED WERE CRAZY s**y. AT one point I caught him rubbing his lips together, which obviously says something right? Please any advice.

Answer 1

Prepare a business card with your name and contact info.

At least an email address if not a phone number.  You may leave the address off.

You are looking for work and networking with someone who is in and out of a lot of businesses is a good idea.

The next time you see him, go ahead and be bold enough to approach.  

Simply say hi, remember me?  I worked at _ _ _.  I’m not there anymore.  I would have never said anything while I was in the work place, but would you like to meet for coffee sometime?  That is of course if your not married, g*y, or otherwise attached.  I hope I haven’t just made a fool of myself. I wouldn’t want to get you in trouble but I’d like to talk”