PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!! MY DAD IS MAKING ME SOOOO MAD!!!! 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!!! I NEED HELP!!!!!?

Question

My dad is really making me mad (I don't get along with him)! He caught me up late last night and got really mad. He said that tonight I have to sleep in his room!!! I'm 15 and I really want to be in my OWN room!!! I'm a teenager and teenagers tend to stay up late, right? He even takes my phone away every night. He forces me to mow the lawn and doesn't give me an allowance. I tell him all the time that I'd rather do indoor chores, but he doesn't care. And I'm never allowed to sleep in during the day. If I do, I get something taken away. DId I mention that he pulls my hair and slaps me? And he is racist. Once one of my guy friends called and he picked up the phone and said "F***ing call again and I'll be f***ing pissed!". He doesn't even call that much! My dad makes fun of all my friends and he knows none of them. My dad runs for town things, like town supervisor. He was going to actually join our church, and he did during the election, but quit going after it. So he joined just to get votes! My dad calls me names all the time. He and my mom fight all the time. They once talked about splitting up. My mom even said she made a mistake marrying him and that the only good thing was my sister and I! My dad likes big dogs so we got a German Shepherd, but the dog only likes people if they saw him when we first got him! He even bit someone! I feel bad when I have to tell my friends they can't pet him. I don't know what to do about my dad! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

report to somebody that he abuses you.......if that doesnt help then you only have three years left.....so try and wait it out........but seriously try and get some help

Answer 2

Can you tell the police what he does

Answer 3

First thing you need to do is talk with your mom alone. Tell her that he slaps you and pulls your hair. If she doesn't do anything about it then call the police and report abuse. He should not be abusing you. There is no reason for you to sleep in his room. Ever ! If your mom doesn't help, talk to a school counselor. Good luck.  

Answer 4

I remember being 15 years old. I'm 41 now and have a 21 year old & a 5 year old. But, I do see what you are saying. Your dad seems to me the one that needs to do some sole searching. I've always tried being easy on my 21 year (when she was your age). Because my mom was pretty stricked  on me also, but nothing like your father! For starters he shouldn't have you sleeping in his bedroom.(you're way to old for that.) As far as bedtime, I usually went around 11:00 pm in high school and 1:00 am on the weekends. As far as chores go, all children do need some responsibilities. But, I agree with you. Yours should be inside the house. Most girl chores are inside and boys are outside. (not unless you enjoy mowing.) I loved to mow at your age...but it's not for everyone. Then for the church part...people that act in this manner are usually called, hypocrits. To me, I believe you dad needs some good praying for. He needs to respect you and your mother. He as no right calling you names. Theirs many ways to correct you without the name calling. My daughter and her friends always called me the cool mom at school. Because I always understood how they felt. If you're overly strict, that's when most kids get into trouble. So I do wish you the best of luck. I suggest going to your school counsler or even one of your friends parents. (Pray to God to help  you and your family.) Good Luck!

Answer 5

ur dad sorts sort of like my dad,  a complete two faced racist scewball ********

he pulls your hair, slaps you, makes u sleep in his room???? tell ya what, if i was u i'd tell this to a teacher or an adult you trust, i'd like to see their reactions to that one. just keep your friends, trust me, keep 'em. and keep living ur life then when u turn 18, bye bye "dad"

Answer 6

How many times can you ask this question?  

Answer 7

report it to someone you can trust first like police, a good relative that you can trust, or even a friend of which you are close to the family.

you should have police as a top priority though in that situation just give a call and tell the entire situation and see if you can stay at another relatives house for a while, or friends, who understand the situation.

you have the right to have a voice use it!

Answer 8

Hello love..

Firstly, I kind of know what you're going through; I never really knew my dad, and he was an abuser. So listen up, your father sounds like he has some real anger management issues, and he could possibly be unstable, it's highly unlikely that if you suggest he gets help. Or you and your mother and sibling get out of there. It's a hard choice to make, but talk it over with your mother and get her opinion. When someone hurts someone else intentionally like that, it's often to do with their childhood and them anting others to suffer the way they did. As for you dog, I'm terribly sorry, it seems your pet is in a sticky situation, clearly he doesn't feel he's being appreciated or he is just a violent dog...where did you adopt him from? This is harsh for me to say....accidentally leave the gate open one day. OK sorry, bad answer..I suggest you think through your dilemma and consult the person you trust most.

Best wishes, Jada