PLEASE HELP ME...i dont know what to do!!!!!

Question

ok short story is my boyfriend im with now cheated on me ages ago with me best friend of cause im not friends with her again but im pregnant and i live in mandurah and have just moved and dont know alot of people who are my age and pregant and well shes pregnant now and iv been talkin to her again and she says she wants to be my friend again but im scared she only wants to so she can try and take my boyfriend away PLEASE HELP i dont know wat to do....

Answer 1

Well -  you are with your boyfriend again, so why not your friend as well? What would the difference be? It took both of them to do what they did, after all. So why forgive one and not the other? Not that I think you should forgive either - just saying that you already chose to give the boyfriend another chance, so why not the friend too? Weren't you scared your boyfriend would cheat again, just as you are scared your friend will try to take your boyfriend away?

Answer 2

You know the old saying...

"Hurt me once, shame on you.  Hurt me twice, shame on me."

You can forgive a person and move on, but that does not mean that you have to forget.  That would only be naive.

Answer 3

Yea so I am assuming that she is pregnant by someone else....right? Well either way I wouldn't be talking to her anyway.....Sorry if thats harsh but forgiveness is very hard when it comes to a betrayal like that......besides what are you guys gonna do..all sit around together and talk about what? No that's just a problem waiting to happen....no matter how much you try you will not be able to trust her and your relationship will suffer if you start suspecting him, stear clear of that mess hun...Good luck with the pregnancy though :)

Answer 4

h**l no u shoulda beat her up a long time ago

Answer 5

So you are both pregnant by the same guy?

Answer 6

You need to distinguish friends from associates! If she slept with your man once, she'll do it again. I wouldn't trust her!

Answer 7

it's all down to trust.

and by the sounds of it, you wouldnt be able to trust her around your boyfriend. and would you be able to trust him around her?

if you're not comfortable with it, don't be her friend again. it's not worth it just for the sake of feeling alone for a bit. you'll make new friends. ones you CAN trust.

good luck to you

Answer 8

As the old saying goes 'keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer'.  You really have nothing to lose by at least keeping in contact with her.  Just keep in mind that if your friend stole your boyfriend once, she might do it again and if your boyfriend cheated on you once, then he might do it again.

Just start preparing for the arrival of your baby, save some money and plan ahead.  At least if they cheat on you again you might have some idea...good luck.