PLEASE HELP PARENTAL ISSUE!! PLeASE HELP!!!!I RELLE NEED HELP CONVINCING MY MOM PLEEASE HELP ANYONE!!!!!!!?

Question

ok so i wanna get a belly button piercing and im 13 and my mom thinks im 6 and i REALLY want one and i dont know how to convince her so any help and if she says no then my friends are like "sneak behind her back" and if that happens then how am i to go through with that? like how would i do it? i really want one and oh ya does it hurt and any advice on the type/place to get it? thanks!!!! :D

Answer 1

don't get a belly ring, if you do you are stupid and going against your mother's word just because you want to be cool. Um no, think it over, do you really want a hole in your gut. Honestly it would really dumb and you would be lowering your class, people will look down on you. And your little commies will be like, oh cool, put they will call you a s**t behind your back

Answer 2

a girl i know got hers pierced with her friend at like a fair type thing (you know like a county fair but not so little kid-ish?) and her mom had noo idea

Answer 3

In just a few short  years you will be able to pierce and tattoo  your whole body  if you want  to. Whats the rush?

Answer 4

this is extremely important? you can't get one without a parent unless you're 16. and ive heard it hurts A LOT and it bleeds.  

Answer 5

Honor your mother so your days may be longer here on earth!!!! Although you do not agree with your mother right now pls listen to her  they always have our best interest @ heart. How do I know...........simply because when i was young Wanted a tongue ring my sister and I and our mother was total against it. so we wanted till we were gown and out of our mother house to get one. come to found out it was nothing to it and we ended up  taking it out in two weeks.  sneaking behind your mother back is more trouble then it is worth.simply because what goes on in the dark will come in to the light!!!!!  

Answer 6

It sounds to me like your mom thinks you are 13 and, thus, to young to get your belly button pierced.

Answer 7

If your mom says no, its a no.  But, if you mom cant reason with you, try and talk to her.  Maybe you can agree on something like on your next birthday or if you get honours on your next report card or something!

Answer 8

dont do it without your mom saying yes. i know that is the thing now a days. but its something you have to respect on how she feels. also if you sneak behind her back, she will find out. and then what, she will never trust you and you will probably have to take it out and then you will have 2 holes in your belly. ask her what or when it can happen. be mature and hopefully she will say yes one day. and if not, is it the end of the world??  

Answer 9

your 13 years old. calm down hun. you dont even need a nose piercing yet ! i just turned 15 and got my nose. wait until then at least. i mean, i want my belly button but 13 is like wayy young to get anything!  

Answer 10

Wow! Call the cops because your mom is so mean! I mean- come on! That isn't an emergency and guess what- your 13! Just wait, you will be perceeved as a s**t, and by submitting this question, you already are. CHILL

Answer 11

if you did something and it hurt someone or damaged their property, who would have to pay?  your mom right? even if you were a legal adult (18) and even older, and you get into some jam, you mom will end up bailing you out....this is a fact that hasn't happened yet but I'll bet it comes to pass.

our moms do everything for us, unconditionally.

They take care of us.

So when she wants to call the shots, just comply. Do what she wants, because she does what she does,believing that she is acting in what she thinks is best for you right now. Give in to her because she has given you everything and isn't finished giving and taking care of you.

Answer 12

omg i want mine done to and my mom wont let me but im 14 and would never get it done behind my moms back its illegal unless ur 16 without a parent signature and dont do it yourself because its really painfull and if you mess it up it will get infected and plus what are you ging to do never wear a baithing suit again

Answer 13

your mom thinks your 6?

Answer 14

Your mother is being a responsible parent and saying "No" to you is part of that

Listen to her and when you are an adult you can decide for yourself, if you want parts of your body pierced, meanwhile, her job is to stop you doing things you might regret.

Answer 15

first of all you need a parent with you at this age

second you cant realy do it without he knowing

and thirdly it can hurt, they dicinfect the area put a clamp on the upper half of the belly button and then they take a curved rod thingy and peirce a hole in between the clamps...quite frankly it looks awful but dosnt hurt as much as it seams, as long as you get it done by a professional

Answer 16

That was extremely important.

You can't legally get it without her consent.

I'd recommend getting it in a back alley near the subway.